What would you do if you were asked that kind of question?
By the way, is it allright if a woman asked her man (not a man asked his woman) that kind of question?
2006-07-16 04:13:55 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is perfectly fine for a woman to propose!
2006-07-16 04:16:17 · answer #1 · answered by odandme 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When a man asks a woman to marry him he is "being a man". If he's too afraid to ask you, then he's not "being a man".
Do you really want to marry a guy who can't even be a man?
This happened with my parents: my mother asked my father to marry him.
The reason why he didn't ask her is because he was too scared to be a man and too lazy to work up the courage to do it.
This translated into lots of family problems later: he avoided raising his kids, he wouldn't engage the family in positive activities, and he held resentment that he got married and had kids.
It screwed us all up really bad.
If he can't even be an active part of the relationship right now and ask you to marry him, how do you think that lack of interest will affect you and your children when you force him into a marriage he doesn't really want?
Here are the tings you can look forward to by marrying someone like that: He'll watch lots of television, he'll hang out with his friends more than being at home, he'll bicker and fight with you and the kids regularly, when he is home, he'll engage in activities which avoids him having to interact with you and the kids.
God help you if he turns to drugs, alcohol or other women to avoid facing a marriage and family he never really wanted in the first place.
2006-07-16 11:43:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is totally acceptable for a woman to ask a man to marry her. Very 2006.
2006-07-16 11:17:08 · answer #3 · answered by mikeribby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on who is asking...it's so easy to say yes to it because it's really what everyone wants...not to be alone. But always remember this is the rest of your life. I think it is fine for a woman to ask a man, actually think it's kinda fun.
2006-07-16 11:18:24 · answer #4 · answered by pezilove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been with my partner for 3 years now and we are currently trying for a baby but when i have mentioned marriage to him he always goes quite and changes the subject, i hav confronted him about this and he said i can't push some one in to doing something like that. I want to propose to him but i don't know how to, do women propose to men?? Men traditionally use a ring to propose but what would i propose to him with?
Please help
2006-07-25 03:34:38 · answer #5 · answered by kelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would cry cuz that would be like the best moment of my life and yea a woman can ask the big question, its not that common but its possible some people say that the guy is suposed to do it not the girl
2006-07-16 11:17:32 · answer #6 · answered by erratic_amity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it would be okay for a woman to propose. Just make sure your man can accept that and isn't all macho about that kind of stuff.
2006-07-16 11:16:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send me a pic and I'll let you know if I'd marry you. If you are a freak in the sheets yet classy on the street youare my kind of gal.
2006-07-16 11:19:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men love it when a woman takes control, but hold something back, never give all, men like to go hungry. My woman begged me to marry her, I married her sister, women should never beg.
2006-07-16 11:20:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's alright for the woman to ask if she wants to.
And what would I do depends very much on who's asking. I'm sure you're very nice, but I just don't know you. :p
2006-07-16 11:18:35 · answer #10 · answered by Tim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how long you have been together and if you love each other and there is nothing wrong with a woman proposing to a man, though I prefer the old fashioned way thanks.
2006-07-16 11:16:58 · answer #11 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋