I am entering high school and i want to be popular! or at least make more friends. How do i do this?
2006-07-16 03:51:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Seriously, it seems important to you right now... what really matters is getting into a good college... worry about being popular then
2006-07-16 03:55:48 · answer #1 · answered by mixwithanything 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ask this because you are shy and/or have a low self-esteem. I know because when I entered high school I could have ask this same question.
I found one statement to be a universal truth.
"If you want a friend, be a friend"
While it is that simple you and I know it is not as easy as it sounds. Work on yourself first. When you begin trusting others you will have friends.
Do not shoot for being popular. Start with one friend at a time. You may be surprised, one day you may find you are popular. But you will have done it the right way.
Do not be fake. Being fake may work for a while but when it catches up with you, and it always does, you will not like the result.
2006-07-16 11:08:44 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Popularity isn't quite what you think it is. Sometimes when people are popular they forget who they really are on the inside and make a lot of choices that they regret later in life just to make a friend that will not like them later on. If you are yourself, you will attract friends that are true and sincere, and when you get older, they will probably still be there for you tho help you in the bad times, and to cheer with you in the good times.
2006-07-16 12:36:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
now im in college but High School was the best.firstly make a good group of frens.secondly dont give importance to anyone.Let them think that u r the best and its not a good idea to mess with u but dont forget that u are not suppose to harm anyone.
2006-07-16 10:58:11 · answer #4 · answered by $jess$ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friendly, considerate, and out going, to everyone! But most importantly, be true to who you really are. Kids in High School are very smart people. They can pick out a impostor, in a New York minute.
2006-07-16 10:57:17 · answer #5 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being popular doesn't matter. Just be your self, that's when you find your best friends!
2006-07-16 12:44:29 · answer #6 · answered by SUP! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your in High school you should do something that everyone would remember you for. You should do some kind of prank.
2006-07-16 10:54:59 · answer #7 · answered by Al M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just me yourself don't try to be something that you are not. Good luck in high school.
2006-07-16 10:58:48 · answer #8 · answered by blb1240 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself, be confident, and talk to everyone no matter what social circle they are in that way you can be friends with a number of people and not fit into a certain group....
2006-07-16 10:54:53 · answer #9 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry you will find your own way in time be yourself and others will come to you study and play hard and it will all come together foru.
2006-07-16 11:00:22 · answer #10 · answered by SUPERSTAR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋