could u turn a blind eye to your partner cheating? could u just pretend that he/she wasn't going out to meet someone else?
2006-07-16 03:47:53 · 27 answers · asked by blondebirdcrazy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I foolishly did that with a marriage. I got an STD. I ended up with HPV, and caught cancer and almost died. I will never have another child, I will never be able to work again, I will live every day in pain for the rest of my shortened life because of the radiation and chemo treatments for the cancer. Don't turn a blind eye. You deserve better. Don't do what I did. Don't trade in your future for a false peace of mind. There is stuff out there that can kill you if your partner brings it home. Does he hate you that much?
Think about it that way and leave. You should love you, and so should he. If he is risking your life for a quick romp with some strange, he is a fool. Fools end up with nothing. Do you want to go down with him?
If you get sick, he will leave you. He is stepping out now, he definitely won't stay when he is killing you with AIDS or HPV. He won't stick around between the outbreaks of Herpes or whatever else.
2006-07-16 03:56:04 · answer #1 · answered by nik named mom 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No. If I found out my husband was cheating on me, as much as I love him. I could not turn a blind eye to it.
2006-07-16 03:50:03 · answer #2 · answered by Cristina A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could never do that because I wouldn't disrespect myself like that. I take relationships very seriously, I always have since I was about 14. If someone cheats on me, they're gone and I would NEVER go back on that decision.
2006-07-16 03:49:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have before in the past, but if U dnt put ur foot dwn now it will never stop. The main reason he won't stop is because he feels if he did it before and U said nothing, that he can keep doing it because ur"stupid" and Ur not going anywhere. In that case he would be right because U chose to accept it.
2006-07-16 03:53:52 · answer #4 · answered by Tomcat2blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO.
I could forgive a one night stand - an affair where emotions are involved not a chance. Much as I love my husband the minute he had an affair and was even slightly emotionally involved with another woman then I would have to end our relationship.
2006-07-16 03:52:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never. I would be extremely unhappy and would probably start to take it out on other people. I don't think I could go on with the relationship even after a confession.
2006-07-16 03:50:30 · answer #6 · answered by Thinker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way that I would be able to do that. Once a cheater always a cheater. If you are asking this question to figure out what you should do because it is happening to you....leave the bum!
good luck
2006-07-16 03:50:29 · answer #7 · answered by Eric D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I could not. If I knew they were cheating, I'd confront them. Maybe I'd just follow them and make a scene where ever they were. Then I'd file for divorce.
2006-07-16 03:49:29 · answer #8 · answered by pamela_d_99 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I couldn't but many people do. People are so desparate something that they put up with wrong situations. Put God first, and your won't find yourself in those situations. If you do, then you'll at least know how to handle them.
2006-07-16 03:50:28 · answer #9 · answered by Dr. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
noway could i.... it will not work in the long run. cus without trust you got nothing. you can pretend all day long. but the problem will never go away. stick to the "one chance rule."
2006-07-16 04:59:39 · answer #10 · answered by jaynieleigh22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋