He's my bestfriend i couldn't ask for a better one then him, but one thing kinda lead to another and well i'm scared to bring it to his attention that there's a HUGE possiblity that i would be pregnant.. my bestfemale friend say's there's not a chance of it happening but what if it does?
2006-07-16 02:55:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hes not your "best friend", hes your piece of a$$ and apparently you have alot in common.
2006-07-16 02:59:01 · answer #1 · answered by spyderman1212 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Shorty, first thing: eliminate the chance aspect. Get yourself a test. Find out, are you pregnant or not? If you are, you owe it to both of yourselves to discuss it with him. Is there a chance that it is NOT his? If that is the case, you need to eliminate that, too.
Anyway, let us say you are pregnant and it is his, he then share legal responsibility with you if you decide to carry the child to term. He needs to shoulder that responsibility. If you decide not to have the baby, he needs to help on that financially too. That may be a little harder to enforce, of course.
If you have the baby and then decide to keep it, you and he need to work out a parenting plan. Are you going to get married? Might be a good thought. A child needs two parents, despite what you might think from looking around you. Actually look around at how screwed up lots of single-parent kids are today. You will need help raising a child. How are his finances? Let us hope he has a good job.
All of this sound pretty sobering? Well, it is! You are talking here on this forum about being pregnant. That means a life. It means changing your life, no matter what you choose to do. Even an abortion changes how you look at things. Seen it happen.
So, get the facts about what is happening in your body. Then talk with your best friend, because you cannot make these decisions on your own and expect him then to buy into them. You have not told us why he says there is no way it could have happened, but in any case, find out what your body is doing, then talk to him.
If you are pregnant and he can prove it is not his, then you need to go back to thinking who else could it be. The longer this goes without talking, the worse it gets. Test and then talk.
2006-07-18 19:24:55 · answer #2 · answered by NeoArt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well after being together for six years you should really know how he is... but I would just tell him staright up an if he loves which I know that he does for being with you for so long then he'll understand unless he told that he wasn't ready to be a daddy or doesn't even like kids.
2006-07-16 09:59:34 · answer #3 · answered by leihuaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look get a pregnancy test and get tested or even better go and get a blood test at the doctor and and ask for them to test u but either way make shore that u r indeed pregnant and then if u r talk to him about it tell him your views and also listen to his them both of u decide what to do but if u r best friend he well understand your position and his and what u have to do
2006-07-16 10:03:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call Maury Povich
2006-07-16 09:59:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you had sex, and if you are feeling that you are pregnant...tha baby...what to.do...if he is a good friend(as you say, u have been friends for six years) he will understand...and what is better than having a child from someone who is your best firend, u have the thrust right? Just tell him, he has been best for six years, he will be tomorow to!
2006-07-16 10:00:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did u say hes ur bestfriend? mite nt b easy bt i'm sure afta a re-think,he'd accept it cos he shd luv u n wnt d best 4 u.Let him kno tho he mite back off outta shock bt he'd take it well n mk sure u dnt force urself to mari him cos of d child cos ur marriage jst mite nt work.All u nid is his support n care n if u guys luv each oda to wanna live 2geda.......Gd luck!
2006-07-16 10:04:25 · answer #7 · answered by Chicquita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 years is enough time to establish an excellent trust base.
So tell him whats up already.
You guys are already friends...and then some.
be straightforward...use your own style...and let him know...
"our lives take a new path in this journey together"
2006-07-16 09:59:31 · answer #8 · answered by Warrior 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THERE IS A CHANCE N IF HE IS THE BEST FRIEND U SAY HE IS,HE WILL STAND BY U,HE SHOULD NO EITHER WAY,WORK THIS OUT NOW,B4 ANOTHER BEST FRIEND TELLS HIM,U SHOULD.GOOD LUCK
2006-07-16 09:59:52 · answer #9 · answered by kathy r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋