2006-07-16 00:06:55 · 15 answers · asked by duraal1706 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wonder why she left? Do some searching of yourself and any cause you had in this. If you owe her an apology, I would think thru everything I needed to say before talking with her.
If the separation was mutual, give yourself some time to learn your mistakes in the relationship so you don't take them to the next relationship.
Call a friend, go out and play pool, watch a game at a sports bar, join a league playing the sport you like. good luck
2006-07-16 00:14:27 · answer #1 · answered by tobinmbsc 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that. Anyway, explore the world again Look at the brighter side. I knew it must be very hard for you & your kids. But trust me, you're not alone. It does takes time to mend those painful moments. Learn from your bad experience. Open a new chapter. Make new friends again. Be positive ya. Life itself is beautiful. It's only us who ruin those beauty within. No one is gonna help you but yourself. We can only give you advise. The rest is up to you to decide. So, come on wake up! Get ready for a new day meant for the new you...And take really good care of your kids...They are too precious.
2006-07-16 00:26:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a divorce from her and bust her for child support. Also make her pay for the children's health insurance, both of these, until either they're out of high school, or graduate college, or get married on their own. You've got to provide for you kids now, so it's time you think responsibly for their welfare, since she's immature and won't do it. Get a lawyer that specializes in divorce, and burn her hard. Best of luck to you..........
2006-07-16 06:30:50 · answer #3 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, analyze what went wrong with your marriage. Who is to blame for what happened? If it was your fault, ask for forgiveness from your wife. Who knows, this might be the turning point for your reconciliation with her. If it was hers, ask yourself if you can forgive her and take her back. Search your heart and soul for the answers to my questions.
If nothing can be done for you and your wife to be back in each other's arms, it's time for you to move on without her. You have your children to take good care of. Make them feel that despite what happened to your family, you will always be there for them.
And then, move on with your life and try to open your eyes to new love possibilities. There are lots of women out there who may just be waiting for your eyes to set on theirs. Your separation with your wife is not the end of everything. Just look at it as a very precious lesson in your life where you should have gained knowledge enough to make your next love relationship work.
If you have to forgive your wife for leaving you, do it with all your heart and you will be free from the burden of anger and hatred. You will then have peace of mind and that's all you need to move on without regret about your past.
Let Destiny do the first move in your search for happiness. Good luck.
2006-07-16 00:22:44 · answer #4 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be hard to answer unless I knew more details. First thing to a solution would be to figure out why she left. Second, is she interested in a reconcillation and third are you willing to compromise. Lonliness can be a time God gives us to figure out what we can do to improve our lives in a positive way. God bless you.
2006-07-16 00:12:39 · answer #5 · answered by ang3lwngs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your children to church,you will find solace and friendship there.Take good care of the little ones and God will reward you.
2006-07-16 00:16:21 · answer #6 · answered by Elizabeth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have no answer for you,i just wanted to send you a hug xxx
i wish you and your children all the happyness in the world
2006-07-16 00:13:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahh shame dear!
What happened? what drove her to such extremes?It must have been realy bad, I think you need to go for conselling and you also need to work this out with your wife at least get visitation rights.
2006-07-16 00:10:52 · answer #8 · answered by Missylicious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find things to do with your children, they need you more then ever. Involve yourself in their lives.
2006-07-16 05:49:57 · answer #9 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need time to heal first, then pursue a new love interest.
2006-07-16 00:16:16 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋