2006-07-15 22:57:54 · 24 answers · asked by seaba 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no and this is why
it is not their fault they do not love you as much as you love them,
they could pretend but than it would be lie, and i think that in this case when the person told you that them do not love you so much it is good cause there is no lie between you, i think that could not be better way, as i thinks we should not live in lies,
it is very big courage to say to somone that we do not love them as much as they love us as it means that this person will not be albe to come back to you as you already know they are not interested in you,
i think you should respect this person for true,
many other people do not hear true from people they love...
i think it is good to stay friends with such person, but only if they've been nice to you.
2006-07-15 23:14:45 · answer #1 · answered by mrangelosd 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't hate them, after you can turn in and off your feelings for someone.
I have had a similar experience with my best friend who means the world to me too, she felt the same (or so she said) but it got complicated as my ex is her sister. She in turn got into a casual relationship and as a result had a baby.
That hurt me more than she will ever know but were still friends and I still feel the same.
Basically what I am trying to say is, don't hate them. You are who you are and you feel what you feel.
But you'll like me I hope find that special someone one day.
2006-07-15 23:16:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok tryed reading this should i hate a person who means the world to me ??
ok they mean the world to me so that means no I dont hate them .
then the next bit goes ,for showing me that I can't be that special to him .
Maybe not hate but still like but hard to understand and i'm sure it feels horrible .give the guy some space and don't be over him .
2006-07-15 23:06:03 · answer #3 · answered by Nutty Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the long run, hate is going to hurt you the most as you hold onto a hurt and dwell on it, when the other person has moved on and is no longer even thinking about it. I know. He was honest with you instead of using and abusing your feelings for him, so give yourself time to heal and then move on from him. he obviously didn't deserve you anyway.
2006-07-16 00:27:06 · answer #4 · answered by frostischilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck no, just beat yourself up over it for the rest of your life. Who knows maybe he will change his mind sometime in the future, don't ever give up hope sweetie, he sounds devine, I'll bet he's that one in a million, the only guy for you! Stay on him, stalk him, what ever you have to do to keep the thought of you in his mind. Hang on, don't give up. Try calling him on the phone and crying your eyes out. If that doesn't work, try this, get all dolled up, take off all your clothes and march your naked self up to his front door, when he opens the door and sees you, Scream at the top of your lungs "SEE WHAT YOUR MISSING" then take off running. .............then go right home and wait by the phone. He will be calling, works every time!
2006-07-15 23:19:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just let that person go and try to move on. You will find someone that special again who feels the same about you
2006-07-15 23:01:15 · answer #6 · answered by pittycolors 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hate just hurts the person hating. so that would just make the person showing u your not important get off more. but I can definitely relate. someone I love is like that to me. I think he just acts like that to keep from getting hurt himself. like maybe he has no confidence or something. who knows may be people like that were not nurtured as a baby. but try not to hate just try to move on
2006-07-15 23:04:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe, but if u love this person more than anything in the world to u than no because why should u hate someone who may love u back
2006-07-15 23:03:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has their own likes and dislikes.If he is your world then why do you want to hate him.Its not necessary if you like a person he should like you the same way
2006-07-21 20:33:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. People are different and like different people. It must be hard on you but Im sure you will find some one that think of you the same way as you think of him. Dont stress your self out about this.
2006-07-15 23:00:28 · answer #10 · answered by Pinkflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋