Hi, just want to know your reaction to the following situation. Please share with me your input. Thanks. More than 4 months ago I met a guy on line by accident because he got the e-mail which should reach another guy. I mixed up their e-mail addresses, and that's why it happened. We've been e-mailing each other since then. About 2 months ago he asked me to apply for an messenger account, so we can chat on line. I did, and we've chatted on line a few times. When he asked me to apply for an account, he told me that I'm the only one who can see him on line. In another word, he only chats with me when we're online. He used to meet a few more other people on line, but then he changed his mind about meeting then on line. He's now only invisible to me when he's on line. I don't know if you guys would believe this guy, but I do, at least to a certain degree. When we're both on line and chat, I never see another person wanting to chat with him at the same time. We're in the same time zone.
2006-07-15 22:30:48 · 16 answers · asked by CRT 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Do you chat in a "box"? How do you know if he's talking with someone else or not while chatting with you? Someone could have sent him an IM and you'd never know it. I tell you this because, I used to go in yahoo chat rooms, my b/f and I...no one ever spoke to him in the open, only in the "box"..or even in our other chat room, it was PM's there. He never hide that stuff from me, or me from him....If your thinking, your the only one he talks with online, sorry, but your fooling yourself....and you have to ask yourself this...even if he is talking with other ppl, what's the problem with that?...then you have to ask...if he is...why the lie?
2006-07-15 22:44:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ha ha ha this is a joke right. yeah i belive it i do the same thing. being invisible one give u the option to talk to who u want and when. so yeah theres nothing wrong hes just want to be left alone except from u. he want to chat with u and looks forward to it and let me guess u guy yahoo all the time for a long time and thats good. u c if he was chatting with others u can tell because he will leave u hanging waitiing for a responce but if hes always there then its all good. so yeah i laugh because it funny do u belive it. yes i do and its good that he does that. u should feel special he want to talk to u and only u. so continue what u guys r doing might result to something more. good luck
2006-07-16 05:38:50 · answer #2 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gut feeling on it. Most guys out there on the Net are freaks and play games. You've got to be careful especially when dealing with someone you haven't met before especially these days. He could tell you anything he wants remember that and until you actually meet in a public place and you get to know him you shouldn't be so trusting.
2006-07-16 05:34:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand the question to well. Your asking if we belive that he is only chatting to you? I would belive that. As I have a difficult time chatting with more then one person in debth. Also I useually only talk to one girl at a time... Have a tendancy to loose intrest in all the other people online except for one...
2006-07-16 05:35:36 · answer #4 · answered by Brian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be CAUTIOUS. If this person asks for a meeting, I WOULDN'T meet him alone!
If he REALLY IS interested in you, then he should give you as much information about himself (and not just age, where he lives, or what school he goes to [if any]).
How would he feel about meeting your parents first? If he doesn't want to, then why is he hiding?
Be careful. There are many SWEET people out there taken in by people who live in their own fantasies. Be smart and be especially careful.
2006-07-16 05:38:31 · answer #5 · answered by dustytymes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible.. even if he does talk to other ppl though but still gives you all the attention and focus on u then i don't see any problem here either..The fact that he told u means he likes ur company and respects u when you guys talk.. I think he's telling the truth..
2006-07-16 05:38:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like maybe hes got other nicknames that he uses, i used to do that but accidently pm'ed a different person with the wrong nickname. id go very slow with this guy cause im willing to bet, hes chatting to more people (women) than just you
2006-07-16 05:37:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey what difference would it really make if we believe or don't believe. It still comes down to be your decision and as long as you are happy with the way things are going then enjoy just be careful
2006-07-16 05:36:44 · answer #8 · answered by mr. Bob 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be cautious dude. hes prolly a freak who wants to sleep with you and then dump ur body in a ditch.
2006-07-16 05:37:00 · answer #9 · answered by Neb a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want me to be believe this guy.. then okay.. if not.. then i won't.. your choice.. it's somehow freaky though.. this guy must be totally in to you..
2006-07-16 05:33:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋