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if i want to commit suicide,many of them people around me to ask me to not to do this,sm1 wil ask me to not loose heart,sm1 says life is god's gift.sm1 other asking that you're negative or looser.But whn life hurts a lots,,depression comes before day comes..all time you feel a pain..u are alone..even no one cares that you want to live or die..
..thn what you think suicide is a best method to take peace,,or nt..!!
..i decide to leave just in 2 or 3 months..i hav to finish sm works..plz give me sm good formulas to die in peace without pain.
and i don't want any goods like god,parents,family etc.
thanks

2006-07-15 22:11:00 · 17 answers · asked by shakti1432ss 2 in Arts & Humanities Philosophy

17 answers

Suicide is a PERMANENT . There is no comming back . Your situation is temporary , Do you really want to use a PERMANET solution to a temporary situation ? The have medication for depression that really works i know i have been on it twice. I also think your very selfish . Have you ever thought how your sucide would devastate your family ? No i see you hadnt because you are only thinking about yourself. I know you must be in a very sad lonely place but death is not the answer there is help available . Please get help if you would like to talk to me anytime e-mail -pm even phone i'm a rock you can lean on

2006-07-15 22:32:24 · answer #1 · answered by Diane26 3 · 1 0

(I really hope your serious and not just jerking us all off)

Ok, heres the WRONG answer... If I were to do it (and I'm answering your question honestly, even though I hope you read further and don't do it) I would choose a Nytrice tank hook up and a whisky IV... not that I've put any thought into it.

You may not need medication, like others have said... or, you may, but it doesn't seem like your interested in trying any of those options.

I've been there... I've never planned it... (ok, well Nytrice and whiskey...) but really, the few times in my life I have even humored the idea of killing myself (which, in all honestly is almost none)... I think about all that I have been through, and the things that happened after. There is always an after, if your still here. Damn, I would be so pissed off at myself If I had committed suicide and missed some of those things! They were good! Yes, it hurts sometimes, so much that you can't breath, and you don't know how your going to make it through the day, or the night... but you just get up... you go through the motions, like your on "auto pilot" you go to sleep (write everything down, it helps) you get up, it hurts, you just friggen do it... and before you know it... theres another reason to keep going. A new crush, a new obsession... something that reminds you of who your really are and that there is a reason to stay here... You may be the next Einstein, Tolkien, Poe...
Pain happens, to all of us, let it make you stronger, please don't let it devour you.
I hope this gives you some comfort, and I hope you decide to stay.
Sincerely!

2006-07-15 22:34:58 · answer #2 · answered by Amy W 2 · 0 0

Suicide is the selfish way out. What is so bad that you think you should have to die for? Look around there are people worse off than you. You don't ever know if the suicide will work or not. What if you are one of the ones that survives it and you are deformed because of it, or worse, a vegetable left for your parents or family to take care of. Is that fair to them. Suicide is not the answer, it's a selfish, self centered way to go. It is someone who thinks only of themselves and doesn't care what they are going to do to their family. Do you not think more of yourself than that? You are a human being and deserve to have a good life, but if you live in the poor me attitude, this is what happens to you. Get out of your situation and make things happen for you. If someone doesn't like you, so what, it's their lose. If you don't have family or friends that will talk and listen to you, so what, find some that do. You are not alone in the way you fill, but you can and will do better for yourself, just give it time. Make it happen, make a better life for yourself, go to the doctor for depression, and move on.

2006-07-16 00:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by laurelbush28762 4 · 0 0

OK, from someone who has been to hell and back>I'm glad I got help with my major depression when I did...that was years ago and I still take anti-depressives today. If I try to go off of them, I start thinking again about just driving onto a train track and sitting there, waiting for that train to come and end the pain. So I know I'll always have to be on these darn pills, but dammit, at least they keep me from feeling like life is not worth living! If I wasn't here, I wouldn't have seen how beautifully my teenaged girls have turned out. They are my life and have pretty much kept me grounded to this world. You might not have kids yet, but when you do, your whole outlook on life changes.
One other thing that always helped me when I would start to sink back towards that black hole. My mother always said to me, "Only cowards kill themselves, it takes courage to live in this world." I took those words to heart and have never forgotten them. It tugs at my heartstrings now, I know my family would have been changed forever had I been selfish enough to follow through...you CAN feel better....just give it a try before you give up. And come back in a few months and let us know how you're doing?

2006-07-15 23:02:28 · answer #4 · answered by Evil Wordmonger, LTD LOL 6 · 0 0

You don't have to go on feeling this way - and you don't have to kill yourself, either. You can get medication that will make you feel normal again. See your doctor and let him or her know what you are feeling. I was depressed for many years, just marking time, tried to kill myself but failed at that too. I am at peace now - because I got treatment for my depression and started to live again. At least give it a try before you commit suicide, because you can't take that back. And you hurt so many people when you kill yourself, you have no idea!

Depression is very, very real and you have it. See your dr - please! Good luck.

2006-07-15 22:19:26 · answer #5 · answered by Samlet 4 · 0 0

hi. My name is Solveiga. I know one perfect way to die. Without pain or possibility to survive. But i wont tell you it. Once, in fact, couple years ago, i was thinking just the way you do now. Endless depression, pain pain pain inside, loneliness, the feeling that no1 actually cares. You talk about 2-3 months. means you don't actually want to die, you want things to change. I tried to kill myself for 3 times, all of them were just a call for help. Once, when i was really sure I'd kill myself that night, i got 5 people not leaving me alone for all the week, till i finally realized i actually had people who cared about me. I don't want you to commit suicide, because there are so many things awaiting you! I know it sounds like a cliche, but over two years i moved to capital, started studying in the best school in our country, now i have 95% chance to study abroad, I have couple men running after me and making me feel like I'm the centre of the universe. And although i quited biochemical classes, i might retrain and study medicine, because neurosurgery is my dream. I still feel lonely sometimes though. but then i just take a good book, start meditation or call my friends and ask them out! I'll cite one song - 'life is what you make it'. If you don't like this feeling of loneliness,pain, depression, make it the way that you don't feel it. It would be great if you find a psychologist, because they really help you to understand yourself. Relax. Let me know if you want to talk to me.

it would be great if you send me your email adress, because it says that your email adress is not confirmed and i cant reply to your message

2006-07-15 22:30:21 · answer #6 · answered by Solveiga 5 · 0 0

Suicide is not the solution. It only leaves behind massive pain for your loved ones and no guarantee of peace for yourself after this life. I was suicidal in high school, but I can promise you that there is hope. Please check out the links below for crisis-information hotlines and for a little about my own struggle. I'll be praying for you. E-mail me at chad@jesusfreak.com if you'd like to talk.

2006-07-19 18:21:11 · answer #7 · answered by Pastor Chad from JesusFreak.com 6 · 0 0

Please do not kill your self. Suicide is not the answer. People care about you. I can tell you from experience about the grief that your loved one's will suffer. I had an uncle that I grew up with in the same house,he was more like my brother. He commited suicide a little over a year ago. That has changed me forever,me and my whole family. Please do not kill yourself. I know Your whole family will be devastated.

2006-07-15 22:46:43 · answer #8 · answered by Deerrunner 6 · 0 0

the best way to die in peace without pain would be to die a natural death...

have you looked beyond your life? how can you be sure you will get rid of your problems by killing yourself? there are several dimensions between life and death....those who forcefully giveup their lives suffer a lot....dont do it buddy....

life has a lot to offer...we get depressed bcoz we have nothing to take!

try meditation....spend time with friends...children...learn music...

do something nice....work for the poor....the needy children...it will give you a sense of value and worth....and most of all...joy and happiness....

i wish you all the best...just dont give up...

i'm sure you are stronger than this...

2006-07-15 23:50:07 · answer #9 · answered by . 4 · 0 0

DONT DO IT--Hold ON Call these People

National Hopeline Network: 1.800.SUICIDE (784-2433), Suicide Prevention Hotline. ... Help Save 1.800.Suicide

2006-07-16 11:40:27 · answer #10 · answered by Plus-Sized &Proud 4 · 0 0

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