well i used to have a lot of opinions about different matters in life.i used to be bold and would speak openly to evey1.but after a certain experiance i am scared to tell ppl. wat i think.i am even scared to mingle with ppl. now.i dont speak much nowadys.and myparents r worried.i try to be back to normal but it seems so hard.wat do i dobout it?
2006-07-15 22:00:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Whatever it was that happened, I pray that you will be better.
Something has happened to me in the past, as well. And I used to be this big outgoing type of person, but now, it's like, I'm out of words to say. I am still trying to find the somewhat answer myself. But I am doing a little better. Things WILL get better for you, trust me, they will.
But I am still praying for you. I suggest you talk to your parents or one of them about it. Or go on a nice long walk to a park with some soft music, [thats what I do to take my mind off of things.] sometimes it helps, but I hope everything will get better for you still.
2006-07-15 22:10:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate a little sometimes when we give are own open opinion on certain matters it is what we truly believe and what we know from experience. but it dose not all ways agree with other people .And in stead of them trying to understand where we are coming from they try to knock us down. and not give us the same respect. So some times it is best we just shut up. As we mature we are given guidance on whether or not to let it go or react. But at all times we must pray because people today can be so cruel and down right hateful .But by all means communicate with your parents i am sure if they are concern they love you and would want to help. Sometimes others just don,t understand or care.I will pray for you .
2006-07-16 05:45:29 · answer #2 · answered by boodababy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a similiar experience and it changed me as well. It is good to be reserved and guarded, but dont let yourself become reclusive and boring. It is also a sign of maturity that you have become this way. when you are young you want to change the world because it isnt the way it should be. As you get older you realise unless you are a rich and/or powerful nut case there isnt much you can do to change the world
2006-07-16 05:05:30 · answer #3 · answered by mmf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u just go back to the last 5 ppl u gave advises and ask them if u were right
if u really helped
if u were wrong
if u really screwd them up
then after that u will have to learn from it and it will be normal again!
2006-07-16 05:03:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not knowing the whole situation, all we can do is pray for you that God will bless you strengthen you, and show you the way to overcome your issue.
Be encouraged that someone cares enough to pray for you even if he doesnt havent all the answers you seek.
May Jesus be with you !
2006-07-16 05:07:37 · answer #5 · answered by Matthew O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would suggest seeing a counselor. ur problem seems to be too serious for you to handle on your own. If you've tried being talkative and open and it hasnt worked, then ur gonna need some extra help.
2006-07-16 05:06:12 · answer #6 · answered by scrazygirl25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek therapy.
2006-07-16 05:02:11 · answer #7 · answered by troutpotato 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats wrong, what happened to you?
Fear not, asking dont hurt.
2006-07-16 05:02:35 · answer #8 · answered by Kosher1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think ur abnormal. But i think u don't want to impose any thing to any body that's why.
2006-07-16 05:07:58 · answer #9 · answered by I tapu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you look dipressed. consult a doctor.
2006-07-16 05:02:59 · answer #10 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋