I was extremely depressed tonight and my friends knew that. I'm suicidal and a cutter, and my friends all know this as well. Yet, when I called my 6 closest friends, all of them were at a party for another friend of mine (who never bothered to invite me for no reason) and none of them wanted to hang out with me, even though they knew I was extremely depressed and I should never be left alone like that. So, I started calling all of my friends, even ones who weren't close to me and finally one of my guy friends said he was free and could hang out with me. My 2 best friends couldn't even take the time to talk to me when I really needed them, nor could any of my other close friends, yet one of my random friends decides to actually be a true friend.
What should I do about my friends? I actually thought they cared, but this just proves otherwise.
2006-07-15 22:00:35 · 9 answers · asked by gobi_manchurian_07 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
dearheart, you are manipulating your friends and holding their friendship as ransom. Get in to talk to a counselor. Maybe they can help guide you through this. Life is too short to be unhappy. Get some help for yourself first. Best of luck
2006-07-15 22:04:49 · answer #1 · answered by Nurcee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have seen or heard or self pity, but this takes the cake. It bad enough you bring your self down. Why would you want to bring others down also. I never heard of a depresser with friends. You're talking six best-friends. And then you're a cutter. Hell they're you might nut up and try to cut them. Beside real friends get tired of seen you waste your life. Why try to waste their because yours not going the way you want it.
2006-07-16 05:12:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A true friend is someone that is there at your time of need. A selfish friend only wants to be there when they gain something.
2006-07-16 05:04:23 · answer #3 · answered by Scozbo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all this proves is that your friends are tired of your me me me act. they wanna have fun an d not have to tend tro you all the time. GET OVER IT go OUT and actually have some fun. I dont blame your friends at all.
2006-07-16 05:05:10 · answer #4 · answered by Kittie_Nash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
throw them all in garbage bin. find a friend that likes you and the no. of friends is not important. you can have only 1 friend and enjoy a lot.
2006-07-16 05:04:52 · answer #5 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont' kill yourself, life is too pressuce!
Your friends, dump them, get new ones, don't return their calls, they care about 1 thing, themselves, selfish bastards.
2006-07-16 05:04:00 · answer #6 · answered by Kosher1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lok igot the same problem its not your friends .have you heard of bipolar check it out
2006-07-16 05:05:39 · answer #7 · answered by smiley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u just forget about them, becoz they don't know what they lost, so simply keep them side a side
2006-07-16 05:08:32 · answer #8 · answered by ram_lovely007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get new ones - they arent your friends.
2006-07-16 05:04:11 · answer #9 · answered by Mommaof2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋