perfom oral sex on one another, or is thaty not often the case. I have friends from both groups who stated that they did not. Most men, I beluieve would think it to be so, but these friends told me that it was more emmotional than physically based.
2006-07-15 21:05:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
My partner of 25 years and I do use oral, more her for me and friction me for her. We own a dildo, but seldom use it. We are more into each other and the affection/closeness means so much more. We use our fingers, lips, tongue and touch much like any other couple, gay or straight. And the longer we are together, the less important sex becomes--it's a highlight--to our otherwise fulfilled commitment of being life mates. It is definitely a more emotional than physically based relationship. Of course it started out friends, to lovers, and now...hm mm still so nice. We have more closeness than all our hetero friends whose marriages dissolved...the longest being nine tough years. I guess it just matters to the two people in question. Whatever makes them feel good. True love knows no gender.
2006-07-16 10:40:50 · answer #1 · answered by truckinotter 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sexual acts, and preferences for them, are as numerous as people. This is true for all people of all genders and sexual preferences.
That said, I can tell you that of the lesbians I know well enough to talk to about such intimate details, most do it.
And to your final point, I personally believe that a greater percentage of lesbians than straight men would say that their sexual encounters are more emotionally based than physically based. Again, that is based on talking with close friends, and my own personal experience.
2006-07-15 21:12:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oral is done and I dont know why someone wont do it... and there are others things beside oral to do. But like some1 said only those who are doing need to know what is done if you want to know look it up or try it yourself. You dont need a man to enjoy sex and a man dont need a woman to enjoy sex.
2006-07-16 03:06:32 · answer #3 · answered by t_d_r_t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important erogenous zone lies between the eyebrows and the top of the skull. What you think and want is usually what you do, if the other person is in agreement.
2006-07-16 06:27:31 · answer #4 · answered by tom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a lesbian and have been with my partner for 7 years. we do not perform oral sex on one other, we do not even own a dildo. we find other ways to have sex. it's more emotional than physical in our relationship.
2006-07-15 21:51:23 · answer #5 · answered by h00die 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that when sex is concerned, oral is probably used as much as or close to as much as manual stimulation.
While this is not from first hand experience (male, straight), um, I may have read this somewhere. :)
Hope that this helps.
Buddhadan
2006-07-15 21:09:14 · answer #6 · answered by buddhadan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, I do not think men should be privy to this information. Likewise, gay men should not have to tell women what they do together.
Bi is different only if the partner is involved in the thing.
2006-07-15 21:08:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all the lesbians I know tear it up.the bi girls usually complain that they don't get it from f/t lesbians because most of them don't like guys period and refuse to put their mouths where a penis has been.
2006-07-15 21:11:05 · answer #8 · answered by jgmafb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what people like.
Calm down Eddy T.
2006-07-15 21:15:09 · answer #9 · answered by Mithrandir_black 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know, but wouldn't that be part of a carnal relationship? Straight or gay?
2006-07-15 21:10:25 · answer #10 · answered by lizzardkingone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋