And I'm sorry for using that word, but thats what it's called. OK, here we go. As a child I was taught that gays were all evil and would hurt me and blah blah blah. I realized I was was bi is high school and went through some major issues. I went to college figured out that what I was taught was all BS. Now I love gay guys, most are so fun, kind, and just sweet. I have straight friends, but I just have so much fun with the gay ones. I can check out guys with them and we go dancing all the time. I only like gay clubs also. Gay women I'm ok with, but tend to get intemidated by them. So any thoughts?
And any just mean, gay-bashing, or bs answers will be reported.
2006-07-15 20:33:45 · 7 answers · asked by Mithrandir_black 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I add my little disclaimer because I'm looking for a real answer and don't want to deal with the BS that fills this site.
For the other one, I have female friends, and last time I dated a female was about 4 years ago. I'm currently dating a male. Any contact with the gay friends I have is just normal friendly stuff. A back rub every once and a while (I'm very good at them and get begged), a pat on the back, a hug. Nothing sexual with them. I have several gay male friends, some gay and bi female friends. Need more?
2006-07-15 20:44:22 · update #1
Ah, BS from a republican, what a surpise.
2006-07-15 20:49:06 · update #2
A Fag Hag is a woman whose entire circle of friends is composed of gay guys. It is deemed derogatory since the woman is obviously avoiding sexual relationships of her own by hanging out in a "safe" environment.
Also, in most of these cases, the gay guys she hangs out with don't have very many non-gay guy friends besides her. They usually only hang out with the same race and age group as well.
Do your gay guy friends have straight friends besides you? Do they go to straight bars/parties/events with you? Do they help you find a sexual partner (if you're not avoiding that part of yourself)?
In other words, do the gay guys give of themselves to you as much as you give to them?
I was a fag hag for many years until I realized that the boys didn't care about anything other than themselves. And some of them turned out to be very sexist, even more sexist than straight guys. I was an accessory rather than a person to them.
Not all gay guys are like that. But, I found more often than not, they are.
2006-07-16 08:22:13 · answer #1 · answered by bikerchickjill 5 · 9⤊ 3⤋
A lot of women enjoy the company of gay men and a lot of gay men enjoy the company of a woman sometimes. Shopping and dancing especially. I have known so-calld F*g H*gs who were actually hoping to turn one specific gay man into her straight lover, and that's sad, because it will never happen, and she should be spending that time on a straight guy somewhere.
But there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with you choosing gay male friends and spending time with them. Enjoy!
2006-07-16 01:48:11 · answer #2 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
First off I am not being mean. But when did you last have a girl friend and have sex with a female. Have you sexual activity with these men? Even holding hands or cuddling or kissing, it does not have to be sex. One more thing are your guy friends gay? You should add more detail ok.......
2006-07-15 20:40:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
You already are, whether or not you are hanging out with a f*g (good guy) or a F*G (bad guy). Of course, I do not mean to use these terms offensively.
2006-07-15 21:06:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
No, "coward" is a more fitting and complete term.
2016-03-09 22:42:02 · answer #5 · answered by Bernard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what you are saying is that if I don't see things exactly as you see them and then I respond that you will report me.Wow are you a communist ?Nope must be a Democrat to be that self centered.Go ahead and report me.
2006-07-15 20:39:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
i can't see the big issue you want to be gay? fine with me nothing wrong with being gay have heaps of friends who are and they are tops
2006-07-15 21:20:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋