my son is the youngest of three boys, when we set and study with him he start ok then he gets bord when we study more then one hour, he likes to play.
2006-07-15 20:17:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference ➔ Primary & Secondary Education
At fourteen a young man is obsessed with "studding", if I may borrow your colorful euphemism. If he is not enjoying himself, it may be he lacks confidence. A lot of young men are shy about their changing bodies and, half-believing their friends' locker-room boasts, embarrassed by their inexperience. He may also suffer from a hair-trigger. Best you sit down and explain to him that sex is really about love, not conquest, and that he needn't be shy about waiting until he's a little older, and until he finds that truly special girl.
2006-07-15 20:29:27 · answer #1 · answered by Happy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry . . . . did you really just ask how can you get your son to enjoy STUDDING? Is he a horse? sorry again, I just had to laugh. But seriously, make it fun for him, build in rewards and use those to motivate him for studying. Also, no dinner till HW is done is sometimes helpful, as is no playtime. Quiz him at the end so you know he does not rush it. Studying is always boring unless it is something you are very interested in. Thus, find a way to make it interesting. I'm not saying be overly harsh and strict, i'm just saying make sure he has expectations that override fun. Be consistent and if he works hard, give him extra playtime afterwards or a treat, but make sure he knows that this is not a negotiation or that there is anyway out of this (like leaving it at school) Come on, you are in control, you have to show him that doing your best work should take priority over fun time.
2006-07-16 03:31:07 · answer #2 · answered by House 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you mean to STUDY? Because most fourteen year old boys have enough hormones to stud on there own. But seriously. Encourage him to read about things he enjoys. And try to apply those to the things he needs to study. Also incentives seem to work.
2006-07-16 03:22:31 · answer #3 · answered by jannurse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG thats a lame question (no efence) of course he h8s studying we ALL do the best thing you can do for him is to let him study on his own try gettin him into a study group and dude is you think thats gay think agen coz im no nerd/geek -got -my -nose -stuck -to a- book- all -day kinda gal id ratha be playin my electric guitar then study but its fun to spend a day with your frends just chillin and helpin eachotha out and thats how i found my bf (lov ya babe!!) if ur in Australia email me @ blush12@hotmail.com and we'll work sumthin out that way hay rememba ur nursin a lyf skool skill here
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2006-07-16 05:23:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first u should talk 2 him that what is the problem with him that he didn't like 2 do study what he thinks about study if he will tell u then u should tell him that without study he can't do anything in his life
2006-07-16 03:29:03 · answer #5 · answered by ritu t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we just started an online tutoring group for students who need the extra support when it come to their studies. we could use parents who are willing to contribute time in helping us tutor.
2006-07-18 01:25:48 · answer #6 · answered by Ms Frann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he likes to play try to mix his playing and studying try to compare what it is he is studying to what it is he is playing at the time make it fun
2006-07-16 03:22:03 · answer #7 · answered by OZoNE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is now at the age of teenage.
So you have to care full about that age.
Just with your possitive approach to him.
2006-07-16 04:12:44 · answer #8 · answered by haque 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try rewarding him for studying for more then an hour . it might work.
2006-07-16 03:23:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a beautiful tutor... or teacher...
i know he'll like it...
or balance his time very well...
2006-07-16 03:26:13 · answer #10 · answered by cuteakoh7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋