my boyfriend and i are having intercourse every week for the past one year.we are together since last 1.9 years.now a days he is going through some financial crunches in his bussiness and thus he is not able give me certain time which he used to give me earlier.but we are continuing doing intercourse every week.earlier he used to call me atleast 20 times in a day.but now a days he calls me only 7 or 10 times.i know his problem and understands him but i sometimes feel very lonely b'coz i have got a habit of talking to him 20 times a day.i know that he loves me a lot and will never ever cheat on me.even i love him the most and i am ready to co-operate,help and be with him in every problem of his.sometimes when i am sad i do not tell him b'coz he will get tensed but he insists that i should tell him everything as he tells me.how do i handle this situation and not feel lonely?PLEASE HELP??????????serious answers only.
2006-07-15 20:00:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Sounds like he has enough free time to call you 7-10 times a day.
You may be addicted to your cell phone. Cell phone addiction can cause people to go crazy if they don't get a reply in 2 minutes. Relax and enjoy the 7-10 times he contacts you. That is still a lot.
2006-07-15 20:11:17 · answer #1 · answered by Mike H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get a hobby.you should not be complaining about the calling as that is way too much if he has to work.he seems to have a lot going on ,so as you said be there for him and ,well im sorry but you sound a little spoiled and demanding. REALLY! think of him stress can really hurt a relationship so play it cool.plus sex is not everything it is only part of a relationship,also after beening together for so long sometimes sex is not as much as it use to be .sometimes you have to spice it up. don't have a day and time. good luck too you and yours
2006-07-15 20:09:07 · answer #2 · answered by greeneyes634970 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
20 times a day? wow - that seems like a lot. Well, you said yourself that he doesn't have time for you because of his work - not because he's lost interest in you. As long as you're still talking (7 phone calls a day is still a lot!) and your sex life is still okay then I wouldn't worry too much about it. Instead, use this extra time to focus on yourself and things that you enjoy doing by yourself or with friends.
2006-07-15 20:05:28 · answer #3 · answered by sarahjaniepoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he calls you seven to ten times a day??? you should never have agreed to have sex before he married you, you are such a fool, but my god if anyone called me that much i would run like hell, grow up, live your own life, this guy doesnt care about you, he just wants free sex.
2006-07-15 20:05:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez, you're like a leech.
Leave the poor guy alone if he's having that many problems.
2006-07-15 20:15:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋