Can Bisexual Woman Be Truly Faithful In A Long Term Lesbian Relationship?

Question

Or would they eventually go out for some male action to see to thier desires...

Answer 1

Yes, true bisexual women would be faithful. It's not sexuality that makes a person cheat, it's their morals and personality. I would never ever cheat on a partner, be it man or woman, I haven't got it in me to do that to someone. But cheating on a partner is an everyday occurance, bisexuals do it, lesibans do it, gay men do it and straight people do it. If you fall in love with a person, it's them you want to be with , and just becuase your bisexual and do like men doesn't automatically mean that you are going to run around looking for men after a year because you miss what they give you in the bed.

Answer 2

Oh, that's just bullsh*t. I can't believe that people are into such denial that they will accept such sweeping generalizations.

First of all, I am compelled to point out that Bisexuality exsists. No, I am not bisexual, I am a lesbian...but I have several bisexual friends. When a gay person says "Oh, bisexuality doesn't exsist" it reminds me soooo much of straight people saying "oh, you're not gay. It's just a phase!"

Second of all, why COULDN'T a bisexual woman be faithful in a long term relationship to a woman? Can one lesbian be faithful to another for the long term? Of course. Are they always? No. Just because we're gay or lesbian doesn't mean we don't have cheats in our midst.

Third of all, why should it freaking matter if she's bisexual or lesbian at all? Obviously, if it's a long term relationship, then both parties must love eachother and I'm so sick of people putting conditions on love.

Answer 3

This is a seriously ignorant question - I'm not trying to be mean. But where did society come up with the idea that bisexual is equivalent to promiscuous??? Bisexual means a person who is open to being with either a male or a female, it doesn't mean both at the same time, or that they switch off every six months, or that if they go 20 years without sex with one of the genders (opposite from they primary partner's gender) that they will explode. People don't generally sleep with EVERYONE they are attracted to.

Answer 4

Short answer. Yes. That being said, long term relationships are hard for anybody. I think it depends on the readiness of the individuals and the compatibility of the couple. Maybe you should talk to your partner about your hesitation around her commitment. Things you might want to think about: Has she been in a long-term relationship before? Is she looking for a long-term relationship? How comfortable is your partner with her sexuality? Has she been in a long-term relationship with another women? Is she out to her family and friends? I have dated two bisexual women, but both relationships ended quickly. They were in their early 20s and exploring themselves, including their sexuality. In addition, since they could date guys they had a lot of pressure on them from friends and family to be straight. Both are still bisexual. One is dating a man, and I am not sure about the other one. I chalk it up to young love and long-term incompatibility. However, I think the pressure from friends in family did not help.

Answer 5

I've came across alot of bisexual females who are not faithful throughout their relationship. They would either get together with males (long or short term) or even back in the Lesbian world for others when their attached.

Answer 6

I don't know about women but my man is bisexual and he is faithful to me. He thinks men are good looking etcetera, but he loves me so he wouldn't cheat on me. I never thought I'd be with a bisexual man, but I sure love him. He knows that if he ever wanted to do anything with another guy, that he would have to tell me about it first. We have understanding in our relationship so if he felt the need to experiment, I would let him do it and if he decided that he liked it, then I would let him be. However, he has told me he wouldn't do that to me and I trust his word. So perhaps it is the same thing here with women. I'd say trust her and talk to her about it, cause if she feels that urge it's best that you know than not know. That way you won't feel cheated cause you allowed it. That is how I see it. I think if you had the same urge, your partner would understand. It's all about communication really. So talk about it like I said. Good luck!

Answer 7

That is a very interesting question, I would think it would not be easy for that person to be faithful. I never thought of people that were bisexual where in committed relationship.

Answer 8

It all depends on the bi woman---or any other person of any gender, sex, sexual persuasion, race, color etc. etc. If an individual is going to cheat, they will. And once a cheater, (usually) always a cheater. Yet if a person finds true love, they should never cheat. Why would they feel the need to? True love fills all the emotional and physical needs of most people. And true love knows no gender.

Answer 9

LT healthy relationships are based on so very much more than sex. If the rest is there, I doubt the odds of cheating are much different than for any other couple with any other sexual orientation. Now the odds of cheating in general.... humpf, not necessarily so promising.

Answer 10

From experience....NO

Most bisexuals, being bisexual will want some male action form time to time.