Trust me, I am just a normal female who takes just as much interest in guys as any other female my age. And I am 100% confident in how I look. I even put up an actual picture of myself. I just don't like to talk about sex. That is all. And I see nothing wrong with that. In fact, to be honest I think people who think there is something wrong with me are nasty, too. I just think it is disgusting to talk about sex, period. In fact, I have never even been with a guy because they were all just about sex. And when guys talked to me I knew that they were about sex because they always ended up mentioning something sex related. So I did not even talk to them. I really do just want to find a guy who is like me, like someone who is not worried about talking about sex....if that is even possible. And if you think there is something wrong with me, fine. I am just a normal female who is like any other female my age. I just really think sex is nasty. And I see nothing wrong with that.
2006-07-15 19:50:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
So, after all of the venting what is your question?
2006-07-15 19:54:41 · answer #1 · answered by Gabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not wanting to talk about or hear about sex is normal, sure. But is seems to me that your feelings go way beyond that...all the way to an outright aversion to sex.
You say:
"I am just a normal female who is like any other female my age. I just really think sex is nasty."
Okay, that's not normal. Sex is not nasty, it is natural. Perhaps you should seek some counseling about your attitude toward sex.
Of course, you do not mention your age but it seems that you must be over eighteen or thereabouts and harboring these kinds of feelings about it will definitely hurt your relationships in the future if you do not come to an understanding in your own mind about what sex is and what sex isn't.
Believe me, it is not normal to feel disgusted by the idea of having sex, no matter what your age.
Best of luck to you!
2006-07-16 04:55:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are being a little dramatic, I mean sex is a natural thing when the time is given for it. You shouldn't talk about sex if you don't want to, because it makes you uncomtrouble. But you shouldn't get upset because you don't want to talk about it either. To many people it's very easy to talk about it, like my cousin for one, but to me I am not too comtrouble talking about it speacially when it's with people I am not too close to. But you know someday it will come to you and you might be doing it, I mean it's where a new life comes from. Don't talk about it if you don't want to....but don't be upset because others do talk about it, they're just more comtrouble talking about sex than you, it's no biggie.
2006-07-16 03:03:15 · answer #3 · answered by Cool Chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about what others say to you on here, baby girl. Some folks CAN be a little rough, but that's because we're not speaking to each other in the flesh. When some people are hidden behind a computer, they will be as rude as they want to be because they feel anonymous. Just move on and ignore them.
2006-07-16 02:55:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you think is about not being considered.No honey you are just standing at the right position in life of your own,your own world to rely on.Think about me reading your message you posted.Do you know where am i now?Of course no.
So don't worry about the responses from whatever sources around.But you must be quick when thinking of your step.
Contact me soon for confidential talks via my mail.
Me.
2006-07-16 02:58:08 · answer #5 · answered by ELASTOL L2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you feeling this way. There is not many young ones like you left !
Keep up your good attitude.
You are just an "old fashioned girl". Nothing wrong with THAT !
2006-07-16 02:57:01 · answer #6 · answered by StarGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u it's nasty to HAVE sex or to TALK about it? what about when you're married? will u have sex then?
2006-07-16 02:54:19 · answer #7 · answered by chapped lips 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, i didn't see your previous question. now that you've tried very hard to explain yourself.....are you done with releasing your frustration?
2006-07-16 02:59:23 · answer #8 · answered by gurrrly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to confirm your email so people can contact you.
2006-07-16 09:49:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not rude
2006-07-16 02:58:04 · answer #10 · answered by acopa06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋