what do people do when they flirt? I'm not sure if I ever flirted at all.
2006-07-15 19:48:41 · 11 answers · asked by ? 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
1. The most important thing is eye contact when flirting. This is really the one single golden rule of flirting! Sounds easy, but can initially be difficult to establish for longer than a second or two. So when you next go out, find a guinea pig to practice on! Once you have decided on your target, look directly at him/her, then look away and always accompany this look with a smile. If they seem not to have noticed you, look again and this time smile directly at him/her. At first this really will be hard but once you get a reaction you will find your confidence will increase.
2. Once they have noticed you it is worthwhile having a few lines prepared for when they come over. However, if this does not happen, despite what you thought was a good reaction to your earlier eye contact, why don't you try approaching him/her? It could be that they are feeling just as unsure as you, so it's better to try rather than wonder what might have been.
3. When you do get to talk to them, always remember to be pleasant and smile whilst flirting - this will help put the other person at ease and also gives the impression that you are relaxed, even if inwardly you are shaking with nerves!
~hope this helps. If you have more questions please do not hesitate to ask!
2006-07-20 13:27:08 · answer #1 · answered by Bon Bon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you have to do to flirt is tell the other person these words:
I want to make you burst out in a sparkling display of orgiastic splender.
That will get their attention.
2006-07-16 04:26:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you ask me, when you flirt you smile and laugh a lot and sometimes at somethin that's not even funny to you but i really don't know i just do it,i'm really kinda stuck you know i mean it's like somethin you do automatically like blinking
2006-07-16 02:58:53 · answer #3 · answered by unique_stylz06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FLIRTING SHOULD COME NATURALLY...DON'T BE SURPRISED IF YOU ACT A LITTLE GOOFY WHEN YOU DO...WHEN PEOPLE FLIRT WITH SOMEONE THEY TEND TO GIGGLE MORE, TOUCH MORE (LIKE THEIR ARM, ETC) A LOT OF EYE CONTACT, A LOT OF SMILING. YOU MAY FIND YOURSELF LAUGHING AT EVERYTHING THAT PERSON SAYS AND THEN LATER SAY "OH MY GOD, I CAN'T BELIEVE I ACTED LIKE THAT" IT WILL COME NATURALLY, TRUST ME...HAVE FUN WITH IT!!
2006-07-16 02:53:33 · answer #4 · answered by PhantomLover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirting can be many things...a slight glance...a cheeky grin...a brush as you pass someone...everyone has usually flirted before...even if u dont know it
2006-07-16 03:03:46 · answer #5 · answered by ezzaphill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Squirt...oops
2006-07-16 03:30:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be a smile, a wink or simply some eye contact.
2006-07-16 02:52:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a girl might be hitten on aboy alot or blow a kiss or you might talk to him alot and say certian thing
2006-07-16 02:52:10 · answer #8 · answered by King Gene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup i do and modestly, i'm real good at it (lol)... dont ask me how i learned it... it just comes naturally to me :)
2006-07-16 02:54:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's easy...you let a girl know you think she's attractive but you know how to "keep her in line"
....works for me.
2006-07-16 02:52:41 · answer #10 · answered by R J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋