2006-07-15 19:19:01 · 5 answers · asked by Xebeck 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well from the perspective of a married man, theres the good old saying you can window shop, just dont make a purchase. but that saying doesnt apply here, a married women is trouble, dont even fantasize about doing something to someone that you wouldn't want done to you, I understand about being attracted to a women it's embeded in all men, it is your job though to weed the good thoughts from the bad, if you find yourself starting to fantasize about her stop, do something to sidetrack your mind. im not going to tell you to not look at women in general, but dont look at women who are married, and if your married look but dont fantasize or pursue, there is nothing in this world that will stop you from noticing a beautiful women but all it takes to stop a potential mistake is your own will.
2006-07-15 20:16:54 · answer #1 · answered by johnperry_rydz 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, I could just call you stupid and be done with it, but that wouldn't tell you anything...
Let me just say this...
The last time my "ex" husband fantasized about another woman, he carried it out, and left me and my 5 year old daughter...
So I am thinking, if you are fantasizing about it, you might eventually carry it out, and hurt two families and those kids and other relatives involved with their loved one...
So it's the domino effect...
You cheat with one member of the family and everyone else knows and is affected by the outcome...
It is a horrible thing to carry out...
It hurts so many just for your selfish pleasure...
2006-07-16 02:32:10 · answer #2 · answered by aspenkdp2003 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, thanks for answering my question, it took me a while to find your question, but please don't act on any fantasies. I did and he turned out to be NOTHING, I am so glad I did not do anything but speak over the phone a few times w/ him. So you sometimes can not help but think of the opposite sex, but the more you allow yourself to think, you are going to want to act on it and you will live to regret it. So Just when she comes to your mind immediately STOP and think of your wife or kids or your lovely home or a happy vacation or something else. I wish you the VERY best.
2006-07-16 02:40:53 · answer #3 · answered by Annie Mae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasies are an outlet to your subconcious... they help us make goals and promises... there are some, however, that we shouldn;t pursue. KNowing the difference is a good thing
2006-07-16 03:03:57 · answer #4 · answered by Talisman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's ok unless you carry that fantasy out.
2006-07-16 02:33:18 · answer #5 · answered by RoseRed1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋