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If you're gay and don't know the origin or the reason behind it... then why do you feel so secure being that way?

2006-07-15 18:41:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

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1/2 are born that way , the other 1/2 got sucked into it .

2006-07-16 03:52:07 · answer #1 · answered by Thomas H 4 · 2 0

Well, firstly, straight people obviously feel pretty secure about being straight, and they have no idea why that is so. Asexual reproduction is more energy efficient and yet, most species (not all) clearly evolved to utilize sexual reproduction.

Homosexuality evolved at the same time and while we don't know exactly why (there are ongoing studies on that), the fruitfly studies clearly demonstrated that it is, in fact, genetic. Various and sundry studies with human beings also indicate a genetic link.

I've honestly never cared why I was gay, its the way I am -- I have learned the science simply because so many non-gay people want to know.

Kind regards,

Reynolds Jones
Http://www.rebuff.org
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2006-07-16 05:22:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I am not gay. But understanding reincarnation would help you with this. When a spirit has lived say 10 lives as a female and then in this life ends up in a male body, what is the natural reaction that you think would happen. This spirit has been loving men for many lives. This would explain why in this life, they are attracted to men even in a male body.

2006-07-15 19:01:05 · answer #3 · answered by singitoutloudandclear 5 · 0 0

Origin of gay men you ask? I believe St. Augustine in 10th or 11th century AD finally "banned" homosexuality as a socially acceptable form of sexuality in the Christian world. It appears in US (the Judeo-Christians, we are) only did the 1960's finally began to loosen the grip of social stigma associated with being a homosexual. Homosexuals existed, basically "always". Perhaps, the Bible obscures the fact, but just as it is an acceptable intimate act in the animal kingdom, it shall remain so in the animal kingdom of humans. It is a gross misconception that all gays want it "Uhm... You Know... Up the butt." Sexuality does not arise from a simple physical need to be anally submitted... I hope you realize that all people play their own, individual sexual fantasy... and what they choose to pursue is the drive which stimulates them... where they (we) all wind up is anybody's guess... Sexuality between two men is just as complex, stimulating and erotic as sexuality between a man and a woman, or two women, or even those who are afflicted with a physical need to be an opposite sex. Sexuality is an exchange of the most intimate of moments our bodies experience, how each individual chooses to resolve this is just as unique as the fingerprint. It is the damnation of social stigmas which drive the misconceptions and misdirections of human beings... in US, it is simply the lack of education (intentful and purposeful) which sprinkles our country in such a deragotory fashion.

2006-07-15 18:58:36 · answer #4 · answered by four_walls2003 1 · 0 0

What is the origin of people like you? What makes you Uhm want to insult others..is it because you have very small male anatomy? Or are you in the closet and so very afraid to come out?

2006-07-15 18:46:46 · answer #5 · answered by Greanwitch 3 · 0 0

That's like asking what is the origin of any non-coital sexual act...and there are many...and many people who engage in them as an expression of love and/or sexuality without knowing who originated the act. They simply know they enjoy it--it satisfies them. So really, I don't know what the answer would be but I doubt it really matters.

2006-07-15 18:46:04 · answer #6 · answered by musikurt 4 · 0 0

Homosexuality has always been part of humanity and is practiced by numerous other species including our closest animal relatives-bonabos.
But I don't know why you presume gays feel secure

2006-07-15 18:46:42 · answer #7 · answered by Vermin 5 · 0 0

Reported.

2006-07-15 18:44:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

gay can be both in-born and learned.

In-born reasons are things going wrong in gender development of the fetus, learned - with peer pressure and popular culture.

2006-07-15 18:44:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Because Satan convinced them it is natural, and they were born that way. In reality that is nothing more then a pack of lies, and will only lead to eternal destruction.

2006-07-15 18:45:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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