My best friend is gay and likes me. what do you think i should do?
2006-07-15 17:11:13 · 12 answers · asked by Calvin 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I am a straight male and my friend is male.
2006-07-15 17:20:10 · update #1
Also i found him on yahoo 360 and i didnt know he had one. it was coverd with my pics and had all this blogs about me.
2006-07-15 17:32:52 · update #2
first, be flattered that you are so hot that girls and guys find you attractive.
second, keep him as your friend. he must have qualities that you like your friends to have, so why should that change?
third, sit him aside, and tell him firmly, BUT politely that you're flattered, and thanks for thinking that you're hot, but you're just not into guys. tell him that you're still his friend, and you'd never want to do anything that would mess up that friendship.
good luck to you, and i hope all goes well for you and your friend!!
2006-07-15 17:37:17 · answer #1 · answered by Krazie 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's a crush, tell him the truth. Tell him (in a nice way) you know he is gay and that you think he has a crush on you cause you read his blog but that you are straight and do not have the same kind of feelings about him. That you two can be friends but nothing more because you are straight and only like girls in that way. The truth works best.
2006-07-16 01:02:02 · answer #2 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa. I'd be a bit piss'ed at this guy for posting my pix, and a little creeped out at what sounds like an obsession. I'd be diplomatic about it, but ask him firmly to take down your pics. Make sure he knows ur totally str8, etc. Be firm, but give him a chance to back off with grace. If that don't work, I'd get progressively more firm, to the point of filing a restrainiing order.
2006-07-17 23:04:03 · answer #3 · answered by Dell W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know for sure that he likes you? Has he come out and told you that, or is it a feeling that you get?
You really should talk to him. Tell him that while you appreciate the fact that he likes you "that way", you just can't feel the same for him. You enjoy your friendship, and don't want to loose it. Put it in terms like this. "Listen, man. I like you, you're my friend. But I can't take it to the level you want. It would be like a straight girl wanting to be with you. You just wouldn't feel it, would you?"
2006-07-16 00:26:15 · answer #4 · answered by Autumn BrighTree 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you are asking you are considering, give it a try, tell your friend you are not sure but you want to see if it feels right, makes sure your friend know it is a NSA type thing
2006-07-16 00:19:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you straight ,gay or bi? Is the best friend male or female,you didn't specify all this info....
2006-07-16 00:18:45 · answer #6 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are gay too and like him let him know. If you are not gay, you need to let him know as well. He will understand this. He might be disappointed you know, but let him know it doesn't change your friendship.
2006-07-16 00:15:52 · answer #7 · answered by midnightdealer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say try it at least once. best friends do everything together, now you'll REALLY have done eveything together. it'll make him feel good. Make sure though he knows it is just you trying something for him
2006-07-16 02:47:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. You're pretty much in control now. It seems that you're not interested in him so let him down easy.
2006-07-16 03:11:22 · answer #9 · answered by leavemebe_11 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you curious, do you want to find out what gay is really like follow your heart
2006-07-16 01:30:25 · answer #10 · answered by eyes_kitty_green 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋