my best freind, thats a girl, im a guy, might lose her virginity. were only 13. i want to stop her. what do i do. p.s. she says she'll use protection, but i still think were both to young. help!
2006-07-15 16:53:08 · 10 answers · asked by amberlvr06 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
ya thats definatley too young just make sure she knows that you dont approve...tell her that you dont know if you wanna be friends with her if she does...then if she still wants to do it then maybe you should find a new best friend.
2006-07-15 16:59:46 · answer #1 · answered by alexandra 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
too young first of all.. do you talk with her parents if so i would advise them that she is planning this. otherwise if you know when she is planning on losing her virginity then see if you can get her to go to a movie or something with you. so she dont go to the other young boy and loose it. at that age you should not be thinking about it yet. and a girl there is no basic for sure protection, and with a young boy as 13... he probaby dont know how to put a rubber/condom on let alone where to put it.the best advice i could give you talk to your friend tell her how you feel about sex at a young age and tell her if she does end up expecting it could kill her having birth of a baby because she is starting to develop and not fully developed. best of luck
2006-07-16 00:04:04 · answer #2 · answered by littlechicky_82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your friend exactly how you feel. If you two are close your opinion should matter to her. You should just sit her down and let her know that it is not worth it. Even using protection you can get pregnant or get an STD. You should encourage her to wait until she is older and she is really in love before she gives herself to someone like that. If she doesn't she get really grow to regret and she wouldn't want to deal with that for the rest of her life. If you are best friends like you say she will listen to you and wait. Good luck with your friend. i hope she makes the right decision.
2006-07-16 00:03:40 · answer #3 · answered by Rene P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure if you can stop her but I would tell her that guys talk and probably her boyfriend would tell his friends. Does she wanna be labeled? Also, she would probaly not have fun with it at this age. I guarantee her boyfriend is either older or he thinks he is so cool. You may also tell her that he would probably dump her afterwards since to him taking her virginity would be a throphy.She would not be happy afterwards to tell the guy that she truly loves how she lost her virginity and at what age.
2006-07-16 00:08:45 · answer #4 · answered by Donna M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her how you feel. Virgnity is a really important thing, and 13 is too young to throw it away. You won't feel the same way as if you did it when you were 19 or 20 or so. You really need to stop her.
2006-07-16 00:03:34 · answer #5 · answered by k3ll13_1s_sp3c14l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her you dont want to and even though it hurts you to end the relationship just tell her if she doesnt stop then you have to end this and if she does end it she might sulk for a couple of days but then after a while come back to her and if she stop then you can start the relationship again
2006-07-16 00:11:28 · answer #6 · answered by T_claire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think she would accept advice from you? If so, tell her that from what I've seen, people who preserve their virginity until the wedding night tend to have happier marriages. Oh, and tell her that with her body so immature, it would probably hurt more than if she were older. If you don't think that would do it, I hope you can think of something. Good luck!
2006-07-16 00:03:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anna L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HER ONCE ITS GONE YOU CAN NEVER GET IT BACK!!
Let her hear the song S.E.X. by Lyfe Jennings.If shes alreay heard it make sure she hears the lyrics.
Talk to her,tell her that you dont wanna her to get hurt,and make sure she knows what shes doing.
Tell her to go with her gut,no matter what!
If shes afraid of judgement ,make sure she knows she still has you,and you're gonna be there for her.
Its a deep thing for a girl,most dont realize til after they've done it.
2006-07-16 00:15:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i waited until i was 24. i am SO GLAD I WAITED.
she is too young. it is like letting a 10 year old drive. she will really get messed up emotionally long term.
2006-07-15 23:57:26 · answer #9 · answered by KelticPete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you call ur self mafiaman if ur acting like a pussy....if ur too young to have sex then dun call urself mafiaman..pik up a ps2 and tell that skank to take a hike.....ur 13...u have a whole lifetime to have sex...enjoy being a kid...
2006-07-16 00:05:26 · answer #10 · answered by Robert 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋