i have this friend thats been my friend for 2 years and i recently met a new friend but soon i find out my new friend stole my old friends boy friend. they are constantly bickoring but i like them both what should i do?
2006-07-15 16:37:07 · 7 answers · asked by marialease 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Without knowing the circumstances of how/why you new friend stole your old frriends bf, do you really want to be with a gf who steals bfs? And then you do have a longer friendship with your old friend. But in anycase, you should explain to both of them that that situation has nothing to do with you.
2006-07-15 16:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by jazzzame 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can still be friends with both of them just let them know that you like them both and if they really value your friendship they will not argue in your presence. You should not have to choose any one person over the other. If they want to make you do that then they aren't really your friends. And besides guys are not worth losing friendships over. If he really wanted to be with her he would have stayed. Maybe your friend should grateful that now she knows he's fickle and isn't worth her time.
2006-07-15 23:52:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all don't lie to either of them. That is asking for trouble. Just explain to both of them that you want to remain friends with each of them. Ask that they not involve you in their conflict. If one of them starts talking nasty about the other in your presence ask them not to do so. This can work. As long as they are both mature enough to respect your feelings. If they are true friends they will understand. If not they were not worth being friends with anyway. No matter what you do don't give in to gossiping about one to the other. Good luck to you.
2006-07-15 23:48:26 · answer #3 · answered by geni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to hang out with each of them separately and don't tell them but make sure you don't talk about it at all.That way if they ever find out you know them both and you are friends with both you can just say "Oh i didn't know what's going on".
2006-07-15 23:45:22 · answer #4 · answered by Donna M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell one friend that your not talking to the other friend and tell the other friend the same thing... soon they will think your on their side and they will love you more than ever. or through a party just for them and try to get them to make up.... dunno what else to tell u
2006-07-15 23:41:58 · answer #5 · answered by Paul O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit them down and let them talk to each other and resolve each others conflicts.
2006-07-16 20:02:55 · answer #6 · answered by Indie.Sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey let them go on..it should not bother you..keep up ur friendship with both.and don't mention about one other to them to prevent bitterness.
2006-07-16 01:47:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋