I met someone over the internet about a year ago. We became good friends and eventually we were both anticipated in meeting in person someday. Well i dont wanna put myslef down but i do believe i have low self confidence and when i met him i lied about the way i look because i didnt have pictures to show him. So i jus played along and eventually he began to grow on me. He began to like me and i was starting to like him. I was truthful to him with everything else but my appearance. Long story short.... a few days ago he called me with a question...I already knew what he was gonna say...He found the myspace page that had my real pics on it ...and i guess it upset him that i lied and kept it from him for so long. I wanted to tell him but i wasnt sure how. I lost a person i liked so much over a lie. Should i jus forget about it and move on? I kinda wanted to kno how he feels about it?? any ideas?
2006-07-15 16:24:56 · 10 answers · asked by MzChamillinator 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Well it was wrong that you didn't tell him what you looked like and you shouldn't have lied BUT if you and him got alone well and he liked you but after seeing your picture he is mad them I'd forget about it. Email and tell him you were scared and what you told in the question. If he doesn't come back around then it was doomed from the start.
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2006-07-15 16:29:02 · answer #1 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2006-07-16 05:53:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. And don't lie in the future. We are all beautiful to someone, and if he was mad for you not being what you said you were, then you have to move on. You dug the grave by lying, so let him go. But you've learned your lesson, right? Ever see the movie The Truth About Cats and Dogs? Shallow Hal? Those have Hollywood endings, not true endings ... be honest, and maybe meet a person in real life, so there are no secrets. (ps, love yourself too!)
2006-07-15 23:30:55 · answer #3 · answered by and yet, so .... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've put yourself in a very uncomfortable situation. As long as you kept a facade, building yourself into someone you truly weren't, the person on the other end bought it. I don't want to come over as mean, but I'm not sure that he may want to pursue a relationship that was built on a lie. Trust is a very sacred thing for a lot of people. You can try and talk to him, and explain the low self-esteem, but prepare yourself for him to keep his distance. Good luck in whatever you decide to do!
2006-07-15 23:33:11 · answer #4 · answered by Kris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best advice I can give you is to let him know how you felt and why you lied. Let him know you knew it was wrong once you got to know him but you were in deep and couldn't figure out how to tell him. After that the rest is up to him. Good luck!
2006-07-15 23:30:34 · answer #5 · answered by polarpup981 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly think its stupid to meet people on the internet, and then eventually meet in person. He, apparently, isn't your sole mate, if he was then you would still be together. So I say just move on with your life, he's not worth it.
2006-07-15 23:43:32 · answer #6 · answered by Princess Gemini 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were wrong to lie but, if he fell in love with what he thought you looked like he is not worth your time. Be happy you escaped now before you got any more involved..
2006-07-15 23:48:14 · answer #7 · answered by jst4pat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alas, once a lie has been exposed, trust is lost. I fear you will have to move on, hopefully having learned a valuable but painful lesson.
2006-07-15 23:29:08 · answer #8 · answered by livingstonseagull43 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRY TO KEEP THIS IN MIND.....
Any relationship built on anything other than honesty and trust.....will be a relationship you look back on....not go forward with.
When you lie to someone else....you "may" hurt them.
When you lie to yourself...you " will" hurt yourself.
Think about it.
2006-07-15 23:54:47 · answer #9 · answered by GOOD ANSWER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As admirable your bravery is for attempting to receive help on Yahoo!Answers...need I continue??
2006-07-16 07:02:34 · answer #10 · answered by Joga Bonito 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋