My stepfather is a gemini and gets on my last nerves!?

Question

My stepfather is a gemini (6/10) and we have never ever gotten along. He has like a split personality all the time. One min he is soooo sweet and the other min he a raving d@mn lunatic. I try my best to tolerate him but its like he purposely tries to piss me off when he know i am already irritated. Like today unforunately i had to work the desk for my step dads place of business. I had to work a 12 hour non stop shift and i am on period. My step father knew i was irritated because of one the customers. So what does he do as a joke? he farts on me like a little kid. I just rolled my eyes and walked off. He talks so d@mn much that me and my younger brother totally ignore him. He gets on my brothers nerves as well. Like if my brother wants to take a break because he has been standing on feet for 8 hours my step dad teases him and says why dont u go ask the clients what do they want to drink. I m sorry but my stepdad gets on our nerves soo bad. By the way i am pisces.

Answer 1

I agree with her. You seriously need to talk to him, regarding this matter. You and your brother need to be honest with him. Gemini
are two face people and are hard to live with, but something has to give. If he still acts that way then tell your mother how you both feel. And as for him farting on you thats disgusting no self respect for others. Just because he's your step dad does'nt
give him the right to fart on you or your brother. He could of thought of something funny to make you laugh.

Answer 2

I' m Gemini, I know several Gemini's, I' m in a relationship with 1. Where the problems are if it is astrological are with both yourself being overly emotional and himself allowing 'wild child' personality overpower his common sense side. Also, he isn't showing any other bit of himself but he Authority. Won't let down his guard, does what he pleases and can't be bossed around.
This may just b @ work 4 the best interests of the business. I assume he has some sort of financial responsibility 4 u. He can't allow himself to drop his guard with u. This is why he is wild child. Would u throw the fact he is not ur biological father @ him in a row?

Answer 3

I dont get it - where is the question ur asking? this seemed like a bit of a rant, but as im sure u know gemini is the twin sign so most seem to have two personalities and its something u might just have to deal with an avoid when possible.

Answer 4

I know what you mean I'm a pisces as well, but I make pals with most signs of the zodiac. Gemini and picses is a very interesting relationship, regardless of what kind of relationship it is. A Gem and a pisces can either be best of pals because of their creativity and willingness to try new things or worst of enemies because gemini is loud, outgoing, and constantly changing their minds about everything while pisces is scratching their head trying to figure out what gemini is doing and why and pisces is more introverted. Just be patient with a gemini they r actually really big kids at heart, and are great to talk to because they always have lots to talk about, But beware gemini can talk just a little too much sometimes, and it just depends on your sense of humor. I have a friend whose a gemini/ taurus cusp (emphasis on gemini) and she just came up with the wildest and most unconventional jokes I have eve seen or heard of and to most people it was hillarious, to me it was only ok. But that's cuz my sense of humor style is sarcasm, one liners, and out witting people. Hers was making fun of everything singing silly songs loudly, and doing weird things like making herself a human fountain, and she loved to make silly faces. She was bizarre sometimes but she was always a pleasure to talk to and I loved her like a sister even though me and her were different I just said to myself, that's my jackie she does her own thing and that's pretty cool.

Debbie 16
Chicago iLL

Answer 5

Gemini's in general see the world with rose colored glasses, rarely have I ever met a gemini that was pessimistic. We also don't like to see others in emotional torment or distress, so we try to lighten the mood if it is within our power to do so.

Pisces in general to my experience are highly emotional especially when they are riding the crimson tide.

My Assistant is a True Blue Pisces and I a True Blue Gemini (6/3). (immediate clash)
Since I have found out that she is a pisces I have come to the understanding to leave her alone, and brightening her mood annoys her, and even more that you even noticed. She can be childish and my patients notice and say that "someone is in a bad mood today", which does not look good on the business. Pisces are known to wear their hearts on their sleeves unknowingly. But we have talked to her so many times about her attitude to no avail. Firing her could be the next step ( the other people are not so forgiving)

Since I found that she is a pisces, I am more forgiving, knowing that she doesn't know that she is letting everyone know how she feels and doesn't know that she is stressing others. I tend to defend her even though I am unhappy with her behavior.

It may help your stepfather if you enlightened him on your personality, go to ivillage.com to look it up and give it to him. If he knows that you and he clash this will help tremendously. But I understand his side to protect his clients from emotions that are not easily hidden by the pisces.

Pisces tend to be pessimistic and gemini idealistic and they clash tremendously to that the gemini will always try to fill the room with good auras and he may feel a stressed and unhappy aura coming from you. I know that it sounds hokey, but Gemini's are extremely open to energy being expressed from another, and the need to keep everybody happy is sooooo strong, it is hard to resist the fix it mentality, he feels bad for you that you may be unhappy or tired or stressed. Though his childish games are a nuisance and not the best way to lighten the mood. Let him know what is a good way to lighten your mood.

My assistant loves gifts though as expensive as it is to do as much as her mood darkens, I try to support it. Her mood can darken to the point of throwing things because her favorite team lost!!!! Usually a pisces will switch moods so quickly that the gemini can become confused as to what changed and if it is cover or a front or a true uplift.

I have become aware that my assistant is putting a front around my patients but I would rather that than her real emotion and crude feelings to be known. She will say out loud how someone's kids are annoying or this girl is a B#@ch, or that she hates this/that man because he didn't help his wife from her wheelchair. And these feeling can be justified, but she is so affected by these feelings that she impresses them upon others so that others will feel the same way she does. You can see how this chain reaction from one person can affect so many, this is probably why your step father try's so hard to lighten the mood.

Gemini's are VERY aware of the moods or others, mecurial personalities, and +/- energy of others. I am so aware that I can become obsessed about it. It can drain the energy right out of me to be around someone in a bad mood or depressed or lethargic feeling. For example=== I was at work and feeling very tired being a Monday morning, but my first patient was so energetic and excited about some new that she got that I quickly straightened and my cup runneth over with joy and high postive emotions, after her appointment my next patient was a man that hates his job and was getting a divorce and wanted nothing more than to do what he came for and talk about how much he hates his wife, well of course my emotions hit the floor with empathy and sadness darkend my whole appointment. And the next my mood increased to a positive.

The point is that Gemini's are very aware of you and your emotional rollercoaster that they ride the ride with you and it is exhausting, we want you to be steady which is not possible for pisces. This is why we clash so much!!

Sorry for the pysho babble, Gemini trait (when your step father does this just say TMI=too much info, but with a smile)Gemini's love to theorize, analyze and philosophize.

Answer 6

Yeah, i'm getting it. My husband and that i went contained in direction of the comparable stuff. ultimately sooner or later I had a soften down on him, I advised him that if i replace into going to could desire to scrub each little thing, and guard the infant, and artwork complete time then i could particularly depart and do it on my very own a minimum of then i does no longer could desire to guard him too, and hear him whinge concerning to the domicile, whilst he does not do something to help. I even went so a techniques as to tell him that i understand he loves our daughter and that he could have her the different weekend, or perhaps only deliver her to daycare on monday for some extra time, and that he could desire to %. yet another day of the week to have an over night stay, and that i could like christmas this 365 days, yet he could have Thanksgiving....and that i individually wasn't joking the two. besides, he have been given a bothered look on his face, and pronounced "you do no longer recommend that", and that i pronounced sure, sure i do,I had concept approximately it alot, a minimum of on my very own it could be my duty to scrub and cook dinner and stuff and guard the infant, yet a minimum of it could be because of the fact I chosen it, no longer because of the fact my husband did no longer do something and in case you won't be able to take me into attention that i want a wreck, or i want some help, then it could be extra uncomplicated to circulate it on my own, because of the fact it could be my determination. i advised him i do no longer anticipate you to be 50/50 with me in this, that only isn't our dating, yet i do no longer think of it is unreasonable to anticipate 80/20 He pronounced he could attempt harder and to no longer supply up on him and that he replace into sorry. That replace into approximately 3 months in the past and he has been plenty extra desirable. he did the dishes some cases, accumulated the laundry from around the domicile some, or perhaps has taken each Saturday morning to take the infant out with him so i will get some sleep. it is all i individually necessary, I only necessary some breaks, no longer a 50/50 cut up, purely some help. possibly you may desire to have the comparable verbal replace which includes your husband.

Answer 7

I am a Gemini and my older sister is a Pisces and she used to get on my nerves too. I thought she was way too emotional and sensitive but I got used to it.

Answer 8

Whoa!Believe it or not,I'm a Pisces and I have a mother who is a Gemini,and she just sometimes irritates me to bits!!!!!!!My advice,tell him off!

Answer 9

I'm an Aquarius and my man is a Gemini! And he gets on MY NERVES!

Answer 10

well, shouldnt u talk to him and tell him; im a gemini and im not really like that, there was this girl who would do that to me and i tried to ignore her, but it didnt work and at the end i just told her and she doesnt really talk to me anyomore, but i think that is better; just talk to him, it might help!!!