my wife came home with alot of new thongs and recently she has been wearing them to work and wearing alot of skirts to work as well what does this mean.
what things does one look for if a wife is cheating or what signs do i look for how would she come home from work , what signs should i see in her clothes anyone who is good in this area i would appriciate your help thanks.
2006-07-15 15:35:06 · 26 answers · asked by couple1975 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-07-15 15:43:18 · answer #1 · answered by daydreambeliever0000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has she recently lost weight and wants to wear things that show of her new figure?
Has she lost interest in sex with you?
Is she not as affectionate towards you?
Is she more argumentative?
Does she appear distracted?
Is she working longer hours or late?
Is there a co worker that she talks to on a more personal level than work related?
Does she shower as soon as she comes home without allowing you to get to close?
You could always ask her if she's having an affair. If she says no, trust her until you find out other wise. Every thing done in the dark will eventually come into the light.
2006-07-15 15:44:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be she likes the thongs because it has no pantyline.
And maybe she wears skirts because her job calls for her to wear skirts or maybe just MAYBE she likes and want to feel sexy. IS there anything wrong with that.
She may just want to wear skirts because she feels like it
So b 4 u write her off as a cheater why don't u just allow her do enjoy being a woman
2006-07-15 15:39:52 · answer #3 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she does wear stockings you should make sure to look at them before she leaves for work and when she comes home make sure they are the way she left. For example, if she has a run in the left legging and when she comes home its on her right leg she must have taken off her stockings, or if she doesn't have any runs you could make a small mark on her stockings and make sure they are in the same place they were that morning.
2006-07-15 16:38:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, just because shes wearing new clothes to work doesnt mean that she's cheating, i buy sexy bra's and panties every so often and wear them not because im showing them off, and they really dont do much for my husband, i do it because they make me feel good .. even though no one can see them i feel sexier knowing im wearing them.. as far as the skirts.. it could be something as simple as one of the girls wore a certain skirt that she thought looked really great and decided to try them herself.. and may like the way she looks in them..
A cheating wife.. signs.. she'll probably become very moody.. sweet one day really bitchy the next for no apparent reason.. (although this happens to women that dont cheat im talking a regular constant pattern of this.. or she'll be on cloud 9 when she comes home then turns into a witch suddenly after shes home for a bit) She'll become withdrawn..act as if she doesnt care what u do anymore..things that use to bug her like, if she's always had a problem with u going to your buddies house on Friday night.. complained ect and suddenly she's pushing u out of the house to go... She'd be finding excuses for you to leave the house possibly to use the phone... She'll become very defensive about stupid trivial stuff.. Ask to meet up with her for lunch.. if she starts giving u every excuse in the book not to i'd go stake out her job at lunch time to see what she's really doing.. Women dont usually leave a "paper" trail like most guys do.. women are usually really careful about covering their tracks.. but they do change emotionally.. fuss about things they never fussed about before and let u do things that she never let u do before.. ect.. But just based on the skirts and thongs.. dont think automatically she's cheating.. It could be something as simple as she doesnt feel pretty to herself and wearing this stuff makes her feel good about herself is all.. i do it all the time..and it has zero to do with wanting to cheat on my husband cause id never cheat i love him way to much.. GOOD LUCK..
2006-07-15 15:55:05 · answer #5 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might need to just look good for herself or there are other women at the office she is in competition for. Poor men think females dress for them...
You will have to do some investigative work but I warn you....females have a plan to back up a back up plan on top of a plan to cover all plans....
2006-07-15 15:54:38 · answer #6 · answered by say it ain't so 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eesh.....
Just...stay calm...don't think the worst and take a deep breathe.
I get why you are concered...I would be too if my boi was dressing better for work than usual all the sudden and putting on a new sexy kind of colone and such.
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But I would just do the same...that's me...heh..
Just dont jump to conclusions...I agree with some of these people about going to her work just to say hey and kinda observe things a bit.
Goodluck. I hope it all works out for you.
2006-07-15 15:50:45 · answer #7 · answered by krystal d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, so first, you want her involved in a threesome, and now you are worried about her cheating? Make up your mind, and stop using your wife like a sex toy to possess. Treat her like a person with great value, and try to LOVE her a bit, not just sex her! And start having these conversations with her instead of the bunch of us!
2006-07-15 15:50:23 · answer #8 · answered by Strange question... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take it to heart, I mean I don't know your alls ages but it sounds like maybe someone gave her a compliment and she feels good about it. I like to wear nice things to work however the main reason is to get my husbands attention not other people. So far he has nothing neg. to say about it. We sometimes play games(hint).
2006-07-15 15:57:31 · answer #9 · answered by Lena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is no other things that would make you worry about cheating. I would say maybe she is trying to get a little more attention out of you or trying to look nice for you and her. I feel better when i think i look nice doesn't everyone think about it!!!
2006-07-15 16:03:56 · answer #10 · answered by lostoneok 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my God, I am so sorry to hear that dude... she is obviously getting boned by someone... if she never wore thongs before, and then suddenly starts -- there is only one explanation, someone has asked her to wear them... and do you know why... because it is easier to **** when you wear a thong -- you don't even have to take them off, you just slip them to the side and stick your tallywhacker into her slot...
2006-07-15 15:40:54 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋