If your husband or wife cheated on you could you be able to forgive them and move on with your marriage?

Answer 1

i doubt i could but i know if i say i forgive someone i know i must never bring it up again so forgiving is somthing that would take a long time id be more apt to move on with my marriage if it seemd that i could possibly trust her again

Answer 2

I always thought that I would never be able to forgive and that it would be over.....until it happened. The only reason I know is that he brought something home with him and gave it to me!!! Well, we are still working on it. Right now I say I will forgive him...just not yet. We have too much history and too much future to walk away for this mistake. You need to look at why it happened. If you do want to try you will need outside help and maybe some "light" reading. I recommend "After the Affair". It will validate your feelings and help you move on.

Answer 3

I could probably forgive him the problem would be forgetting.. the pain u feel when someone cheats is horrible.. and leaves ever lasting scars of distrust and fears.. to forgive is easy.. to forget is the hard part.. and unfortunately those that "forgive" usually it always somehow leads back to the cheating in arguments.. which ends up usually with the person who cheated feeling like they will always be blackballed for their mistake, and the person who didnt feels as if they cant leave the past in the past..

Answer 4

I would be able to forgive, but it may take time to do so. But I would never forget about it, sometimes it may be difficult b/c you may feel as though you will never be able to trust that person again, but if your marriage is worth saving then it's worth giving it a try, if it's not then you will have to do what's best for you and move on.

Answer 5

It is a difficult thing to forgive when you have been hurt, but a necessary thing to continue with your life.
If your spouse asks for forgiveness and wants reconcilation in the marriage, consider meeting with a marriage counselor or spiritual advisor to work through your trust issues.
Your spouse needs to understand how much their actions have damaged your marriage.
Marriage is a sacred covenant, and I would do all that is within my power to save the marriage - especially if your spouse wants to remain with you.

Answer 6

How many times are we talking? My ex husband cheated once and I forgave him and it was like he thought that was a green light to do it again.
I have no trust when it comes to that, if a person does it once, I would almost guarantee they will do it again.
But Hey, it is truly up to the person that it happens to, you never know what you will do until it happens to you, and I pray that it doesn't, it is one of the most painful things anyone can go through.
God Bless............

Answer 7

it depends on if it was only a one time thing or an on going affair and she refused to stop or if he kept comming around and calling
and she would not put a stop to it then that would make it impossible to move forward, also it depends on who the other person was,a close friend relative or someone she knew from before the marriage

Answer 8

Probably after the divorce was final...

how can you move on with the marriage if you cant trust the other person?

Answer 9

Yes but it would take some time.I don't believe in divorces.You know somewhere in your heart you still love them and everybody makes mistakes and needs more chances.But whatever you do marriage counseling help.Trust me.

Answer 10

yes i would i know that i am the only man my wife has been with and i also know that a person can wonder if they can be attractive or attracted to another so i have incouraged her if she feels the need to go and take care of the urge