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He is very good in bed, and I feel bad, knowing I can come most of the times three or four time when he has not even come onces. I try almost everything but I need help.

2006-07-15 15:20:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

5 answers

well forplay is good give him head first and jerk him off

2006-07-15 15:23:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

ok,
I have the same "problem" the first thing is whether or not he comes. I go for hours on end without having an orgasm and my wife will come within a half hour usually quicker,
what you need to understand is 1. most men usually only need to have one orgasm each time and then need to take a break before they are able to continue, and what i mean by this is that in general a mans single orgasm is the equivalent of a ladies multiple orgasm, it is usually much more intense then a womans and often requires a break however short it is. if you can physacly take it and still enjoy it then by all means do not worry unless he tells you that he needs more stimulation. if you cant take it physicly/no longer enjoy it then look into some toys at your local adult store, one toy that may help is a cock ring, if you are embaressed you can also order these from various online stores including amazon.com (for a trustworthy site). you can ask him about his fantasies/fetishes try roleplaying etc.

if your husband is like me, then the issue doesnt result from a lack of foreplay or enjoyment, and im assuming that he has a beautiful wife whom he is attracted to. the issue could be that his penis is not as sensitive as most guys' are which is a good and bad thing as you well now, i don't know of anything that will help make him more sensitive in that area but if you are concerned about that talk with him about it and also talk with a doctor, i know that men are not as comfortable with talking about these things as women are so if you do decide to seek med advice be reasuring and make sure that he knows the reason your concerned is that you want him to feel good. if you wish to discuss this feel free to e-mail or im and i hope your "bedroom adventures" fair well

2006-07-16 01:40:26 · answer #2 · answered by johnperry_rydz 2 · 0 0

He's doing it on purpose. He knows when to stop to keep himself from climaxing. Tell him it makes you feel bad when it takes two hours. He might not realize you are trying to pleasure him and feeling like a failure because he is trying so hard to please you.

2006-07-15 22:30:58 · answer #3 · answered by JMachine 1 · 0 0

So what's the problem? I bet he's enjoying himself for those two hours. Don't complain.

2006-07-15 22:50:20 · answer #4 · answered by Dusty 7 · 0 0

I'd just consider yourself a very lucky gal.

2006-07-15 22:26:14 · answer #5 · answered by duncan1950 1 · 0 0

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