a few of my white guys told me they wouldn't mind using black women for a good time but they wouldn't want everyone to know. I thought that was disrespectful and mean. I confronted them about this idealogy and they said because of their friends, families, and hierachy. I told them they were some *******!
2006-07-15 15:09:52 · 29 answers · asked by ¡El lobo del norte del fuego! 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
You know what they say "F*&^" a black person but don't take them home or in public. Frankly this is F$#%ed UP!! but people do it coz there are still racism present and the ones who do this are the ones who care what others are gonna say and contribute to racism in a way.
So I agree with you and would say the same thing to the guys.
2006-07-15 15:49:54 · answer #1 · answered by Pudge_Monsta 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I think some friends and family of white men pressure or suggest that it is not right to be seriously involved with a black women. I honestly don't know why they're ashamed or afraid of black woman. Ego thing maybe? I'm speaking from past experience with a man that I was involved with long ago.
2006-07-15 22:17:48 · answer #2 · answered by S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I see black women and white men as married couples. So it's not unusual. There are some white men out there that are cowards, but there are those that are not. I think a man should respect a woman weather she is black or white. Guess they won't raised to respect women on a whole.
2006-07-15 22:14:55 · answer #3 · answered by imahlah 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It won't be fair to categorize and stereotype, because not all white guys are the same , we are not the same. Some of us don't give a rats **** what friends and families think. We just want what we want. So some white guys like and respect women, and others don't. Dosn't matter the colour, we are still women.
2006-07-15 22:13:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you think that depends on the individual. Why do we even look at others as white, black, brown... why don't we look at each other as an individual. Never make snap judgments about a person based on what they look like. I am a white man married to a white woman. I dated a black woman for a while, not staying with her had nothing to do with race. Dating her to begin with didn't either.
2006-07-15 22:22:59 · answer #5 · answered by KINGIDASAM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well good for you for standing up to them. I am white and know and respect several black males and females. A lot of what they say is true in the sense it was how they were taught from an early age. My father taught me to see the person and not their skin. I never see black or white unless it is shown to me by their actions. Keep on standing up for what you believe.
2006-07-15 22:14:16 · answer #6 · answered by doolittlerd77 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a black girl is nice and respectful to me then I am to them. I give pretty much everyone the benefit of the doubt.
I married a Indian who is darker than quite a few black girls I've seen. Skin color really doesn't mean anything. Its the person inside.
2006-07-15 22:15:21 · answer #7 · answered by Lupin IV 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think some guys are just idiots- as are some girls. If a girl will allow herself to be used by a guy then she will be. I'd say from my personal experience, MANY black women would kick a guys butt for using her though.
2006-07-15 22:15:51 · answer #8 · answered by Starry 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a white guy and I like and respect women of all races and backgrounds. What's not to like, that's how I see it at any rate.
2006-07-15 22:19:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there are some good looking black women, that I wouldn't mind dating!!
2006-07-15 22:12:59 · answer #10 · answered by Dan =] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋