my husband has this female friend at work (no prob) but she wont stop flirting with him she is even telling him new sex positions do do with me and says she does it good she even says omg i love you like all the time she will tex him and email him always asking if im home befor she talks to him yesterday she said her car broke down and wanted my hubby to pick her up well he came home asked me i said yea but im comming along well he called her and said i was comming she said she was just playing i need to know what to do please help
2006-07-15 14:50:04 · 15 answers · asked by pookie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i have told my husband i dis aprove and she contacts him he told her dont im me or email me she still does
2006-07-15 14:54:45 · update #1
she sleeps with every one
2006-07-16 14:03:24 · update #2
You'll need to do some serious talking with your husband, he needs to be more assertive to this woman and let her know to knock it off. Your husband needs to know from you that this is not acceptable from you.
Turn the tables, tell him how would he like it if you were chatting like this to a guy, about sex and etc. This is not acceptable for someone married to be this way with her, accepting it. She also needs to be talked with too. Lay it out to your husband as a boundary that you want respected with no excuses.
2006-07-15 14:59:07 · answer #1 · answered by trainer53 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Trainer53 has some good advice.
In addition, I was in a very similar situation with my EX-husband. I told both of them that the behavior was unacceptable and that it did not need to continue. Unfortunately my husband did not stop it and chose that "friendship" which turned into an affair over our marriage. We are now divorced.
Bottom line, if you don't stand firm with your husband and insist that it stops completely, you may lose your marriage. Good luck to you!
2006-07-15 22:41:48 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This woman is extremely obsessive and should be dealt with in the following manner: Go with your husband to his superior at work and file a formal harassment charge. Should the behavior continue, file ''alienation of affection'' charges in state court.
2006-07-15 22:08:08 · answer #3 · answered by the prof 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She would stop if he told her to. He's obviously enjoying the fact that he's married and this babe is paying attention to him. Tell him to stop! if he respects you he will if he doesn't tell him about some guy paying attention to you and he wants to take you to lunch and then for a drive. Ir has to work both ways.
2006-07-16 11:07:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds obsessive and could even have stalker potential. Have your husband get a restraining order barring her from any personal contact.
2006-07-15 22:15:10 · answer #5 · answered by Angie P. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is really serious he can change his info, or just not respond she will get the hint. I would have a conversation with her (ha Ha) I would put the fear of God in her, and if she knew what was good for her she would leave him alone or she would never be able to mess with anyone else.
2006-07-15 22:14:47 · answer #6 · answered by Joy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to Trainer53
2006-07-15 22:05:45 · answer #7 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you and this girl is really bottering him he will file for sexual harrasment then the bicth will he means bisness and you will know that he wasnt sleeping with her thats why she is acting like that.if you really want to know the truth try it.
2006-07-15 22:13:19 · answer #8 · answered by gina j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's when you step in and tell her how you feel maybe she will back up and if she don't just have your husband take to a different level such as harrassment
2006-07-15 22:28:32 · answer #9 · answered by TEXXBRATT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to get on the phone with that b**** and tell her to stop trying to get your man b/c the love and bond is to strong and tell him to stop feeding into her stunts to try and make him fall for her
2006-07-15 21:57:15 · answer #10 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋