she wont tell me why. her best friend says its because when she has an orgasm she squirts a lot of liquid out and it goes everywhere but i dont believe her. is it wee or something? does it really happen? im confused
2006-07-15 14:47:12 · 18 answers · asked by freddy p 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Get her drunk
2006-07-15 15:02:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
No some women have copious flow or squirt when they reach orgasm. it is natural.It is not wee/urine. Teach her to celebrate not be ashamed or embarrassed.Create a special night. Music,rose petals on the bed,bath her from head to toe(don't forget the bubble bath-use her favorite) or shower together.Before all of that though,make her feel comfortable around you. Tell her something that is uncomfortable for you to do or discuss. Build the trust.Communication is key. Peace.
2006-07-15 15:36:17 · answer #2 · answered by wildrover 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her when she feels ready to talk about it with you.She is only embarrassed because she obviously thinks a lot of you and is slightly worried what you may think of her. It is natural for a girl to make a lot of mess in the way you describe, just like it is for men too, some dribble and some squirt. If she tells you the truth then reassure her its fine with you, tell her how much you like it.
But you need to talk to your girlfriend because maybe her best friend is not telling the truth. Be sensitive about it though.
2006-07-16 10:09:19 · answer #3 · answered by carla_mail03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FEMALE EJACULATION, it's not wee. it's when she cums & the orgasm's so powerful that it squerts it out. although this is good some women find it embarrassing as they think their partner will think it is wee or they think it's not natural. tell her about it, she might feel better. also many girls r very self conscious of their bodies, try telling her the bits u find irresistable.
2006-07-16 20:40:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, shes not ready for it with you. You dont need a full explanation of why. Girls are more self concious then guys, so it may be something you may not understand and if shes embarrased to do it, she may be to embarassed to tell you why. Just give her time and dont pressure her into it, that will be a very very big mistake.
2006-07-15 14:52:22 · answer #5 · answered by No Longer In Use 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Orgasam cannot be decided by one factor alone.Some may not wet.They groul,clinch to you trap in a hard embrace etc.In woman attaining orgasam is difficult process.Many women seldom experiance orgasm while man finishes and fall flat.
2006-07-18 23:15:12 · answer #6 · answered by leowin1948 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its real mate it does happon and when it does ohh boy you should be prepared to sleep on the sofa coz its not a small amount!mate try to share something about you that you are insecure about yourself while having sex even if you have to make something up!she will "come around"
2006-07-15 16:32:19 · answer #7 · answered by Mr KENNEDY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes some women ejaculate too. Gasp shock horror tell her if she doesnt mind you makin a mess you wont mind her. Only prob is if u use a condom then she'll be the only one makin a mess!!
2006-07-16 02:02:56 · answer #8 · answered by cas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a natural thing, it's just lubricant, you should tel her that it means she is a very healthy young lady and it is not something to be asahmed of. Some men would love to have someone that does that, trust me it's a good thing.
2006-07-15 15:04:43 · answer #9 · answered by MrBeardo 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes its natural, men squirt so do women, just some more than others. just be prepared to sleep in the wet patch!!
2006-07-16 01:11:46 · answer #10 · answered by maria s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a dirty little devil like my brother. He still has to get a girl friend.. Never mind, meanwhile keep playing with yourself. Naked ladys.
2006-07-15 14:51:34 · answer #11 · answered by poppy vox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋