ok so i have become really good friends with this guy at school. We hung out a lot and i started to have a little thing for him but it was nothing huge. after we hung out more it grew and now i have a HUGE thing for him. were really good friends right now and i love the relationship that we have. we had a talk about a month ago on aim about it. he asked if i liked him and i told him i had a thing for him and he told me he had a thing for me too. he acted like he wanted something to happen but nothing has. we flirt majorly but weve never hooked up or even kissed. hes perfect to me and i love being with him but i dont know what to do. should i make a move or will that make things weird? were going to a concert in a couple of weeks and i dont know if anything is going to happen there. should i try something?? Hes told me before that if i made the moves on a guy they would totally go for it but i dont know if he was hinting towards me doing that to him or if he still wants it. HELP?!?!
2006-07-15 14:45:54 · 11 answers · asked by Beautiful_Love09 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He just wants to get in your pants.
2006-07-15 14:48:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
woah girl I think that it sholdn't b da girl to make a move all da time just b like what do u want b straightforward with him bcuz until then guessing won't get u anywhere nah mean. It might b hard but ask him would does he see u as. ASk him questions to know if it wuold ever work between yall. Until then I don't even kno u can make a move bcuz guys like that boldness but talking is a more better way to get feelings out bcuz without communication neither one of u will know what's going on
2006-07-15 21:53:42 · answer #2 · answered by shawtyshygurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he does like you and you like him too, but he is perhaps a little shy. I do think he was hinting when he mentioned you making a move on a guy. I guess I'm old fashioned though and think that he should make the first move. Flirt and show him that you like him, but don't "come on" to him. He may not be ready for whatever reason, and there is no reason to rush things. Enjoy the friendship and flirtation (isn't that fun too??) and the rest will follow. Take your time.
2006-07-15 21:51:28 · answer #3 · answered by mab5096 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just be open with him and put it on the line a little something like this, "Look, we are really good friends and I don't want to lose that. I like you, you like me. Wanna kiss?" lol! Just kidding. Just be open and honest with him. If you end up in a relationship it will make EVERYTHING so much more relaxed. Honesty is the best way to go, TRUST ME!!
2006-07-15 21:53:27 · answer #4 · answered by carlawarla75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is shy and maybe you too, start by holding his hand or maybe just takeing it and look him in the eyes and tell him you really like him it might be enough to open him up. I think he is telling you to make the first move cause he is shy. Or maybe fearing rejection. but try anyway nothing to lose and everything to gain.
2006-07-15 21:50:54 · answer #5 · answered by kerryjonjon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely he was hinting. He's just as scared as you are...don't be afraid to do something subtle and see how he reacts. Never know til you try. It won't get weirder if you already have both admitted you feelings for eachother.
2006-07-15 21:50:20 · answer #6 · answered by dontimaginetheyllallcometrue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look..u have to show him that u really likes him.
u will ask me how..
ok...
actions r meaningful than words, so u shld act good to make him feel that u really like him, and let him go on this.
it's his turn..
either....look for another guy, an u'll find
2006-07-15 21:52:18 · answer #7 · answered by the 6th knight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should make a move on him but make it a slow one,like holding hands,or a kiss on the cheek and see what he says or does.
2006-07-15 21:50:07 · answer #8 · answered by crissy45662@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be his shy in asking you out but it looks like you got a great relationship blooming,i would go for it ask him out on a date,gl i wish you both the best of luck
2006-07-15 21:49:40 · answer #9 · answered by shaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats how me and my girl ened up togeder she was jocking me
2006-07-15 21:51:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋