I am a mother of 2 young children so my children are not. I am just curious to know the reaction of parents who have children that are Bi-sexual or Lesbian or Gay, or not. I am not against them whatsoever.
2006-07-15 13:54:50 · 10 answers · asked by Karen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
They are my child regardless of their sexual orientation. Besides, a sexual orientation is NOT a choice.
2006-07-15 14:00:46 · answer #1 · answered by clarity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were a mother, i would handle it the same way my mother did with me. be completely understanding, and treat the situation the same way you would if your child was going out with the opposite sex.
don't overreact or start having lectures about how understanding you are. just straight out tell them that it's okay and whoever they decide to date just better not have to many tattoos.
if you go into long discussions about it (without them asking you to.....if they ask, then lecture away), they'll start thinking that you will freak out whenever they tell you something, and you'll break a very important connection, because they'll stop telling you anything. that's a very bad thing.
most of all, do NOT treat their feelings as a "problem." what they feel is something only they can understand, and if you act in anyway regretful about their decision, they might get mixed feelings, and never do what will truly make them happy. after all, as a mother you should try within the limits of your ability,(and the law) strive to make your child as happy as possible.
2006-07-15 16:03:00 · answer #2 · answered by The Kid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would accept it. My mother would, but my grandma would practically cut you off from the family for being to strange. She's so........ white. I am not a parent, and do not plan to be any time soon, but my mother worked in family court half her life and I have stories from there. My general reaction to 'different' people, people outside the general society, is that if they're not hurting people, killing people, taking drugs or destroying ecosystems, they're okay. But I know a lot of people who are against different.
2006-07-15 14:13:47 · answer #3 · answered by matt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly im no longer a make certain yet im surprisingly sturdy at workout and making experience of issues. Now in the starting up because you requested this question it would want to intend your worrying. Now i imagine each human being has the right to be who they're yet as a make certain our jobs and with the help of our love is to practise guide our little ones into the perfect achievable destiny. So in the starting up blush it is going to of course be a recommendations blower. do not react undesirable or negatively . it fairly is his or her expression. yet then sit down and refer to her or him and let her comprehend the hazards of this course. in case you do not comprehend the hazards then i quite do not comprehend why there's a difficulty. You cant dislike something you do not comprehend. in any case climate human beings prefer to except it or no longer, its a psychological ailment, its movements reason psychological degradation, it is pretend love because the acts itself is of hatred and its sick. yet thats my opinion. jointly there are those who view heterosexuals as a waste of time and maddening because in there opinion oposites dont entice. They see that there are extra divorces than ever and that its quite a similar ****. so as you are able to discover each human being has there opinion and that is what's going to develop into there reality. So merely except, communicate and let them be them.
2016-11-06 10:32:48 · answer #4 · answered by tahir 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would accept them for who they are. It's not my choice on how they live their lives. They are my children and i will love them no matter what choices they make. As long as they are happy with themselves is all that matters.
2006-07-15 14:05:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be okay wit it because i think you can really change anything. my friends mom is like that
and her 10 year old daughter came home with a friend and her mom wanted to see if they wanted to swim and she saw there clothes in a ball and they were nude on her bed. so.. i would let them chose. but my friends mom wasnt pleased that they were already having sex.
2006-07-15 14:28:50 · answer #6 · answered by vballhottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would accept them for how they are,and educate them on safe sex and how to carry them selves in society to get the upmost respect.
2006-07-15 14:37:29 · answer #7 · answered by reneevaldosta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to understand. I would not love them any less than I do now.
2006-07-15 14:01:45 · answer #8 · answered by oscar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't bother me, it's their choice
2006-07-15 13:58:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt hate them for bein who or wat they want to be. you should just let it be and love them for who they are not wat they like or do. becuz watever goes on in life goes.
2006-07-15 14:01:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋