if you lived in one state and some of your family members lived there too but really got on your nerves, and you and your spouse wanted to move to another state where his family lived but they were ok people would you leave or stay
2006-07-15 13:36:21 · 8 answers · asked by toddy w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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I'd move if you have the option to do so. Far enough away from the "nerve wracking" family has less opportunity to aggrivate you.
But not too close to the other family, unless you need them to baby-sit or other reason for closeness.
When family lives within 15 minutes, they are TOO close!
Make it at least a 30 minute trip between you and them...that's nice, and far enough to discourage "daily" drop-ins.
Good Luck
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2006-07-15 13:49:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think it over with your spouse. If you two are only disatisfied with family, Why completely move from the state? I think it is wise to evaluate the entire decision, job opportunities, living standards, etc. Not dealing with conflict as the [first option] ends up not being the best solution.
2006-07-15 20:48:45 · answer #2 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If her family got on my nerves, even from before the wedding, I wouldn't live where they do. But I have no gf, at this time. The family of the one had until two years ago, got my my nerves.
2006-07-15 21:22:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could go there and stay a few days.. if you felt it was a place you could live then move.. and if not.. then just move to a state in between those too
2006-07-15 20:44:42 · answer #4 · answered by Ninja CK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave but i would decide on a state with no family and start new with you husband and enjoy life. vacations are for visiting family
2006-07-15 20:40:33 · answer #5 · answered by eaglerock60 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I will leave. However, i will still visit them somedays.
2006-07-15 20:48:52 · answer #6 · answered by simplegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should follow ur heart
2006-07-15 21:21:42 · answer #7 · answered by lillexis979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poof...I'd be gone.....
2006-07-15 20:45:15 · answer #8 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋