how would u feel if one of ur friends had a boyfriend and u didn't and they started hanging out and double dating another couple and leaving u out??? I feel horrible now its like she doesn't want to hang out w/ you or do ne thing w. u...how would you feel????
2006-07-15 12:25:56 · 17 answers · asked by softballer_2424 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Not good, but it happens.
You sound sweet.
But this will happen a lot.
You just need to get a companion. Maybe not a serious boyfriend but someone you can go out with till you meet one you want.
2006-07-15 12:29:17 · answer #1 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know you feel sad and left out right now but don't get a boyfriend just to hang out with them, plus the guys probably hate the fact that their girl friends are setting them up on play dates. Go out with some of your single friends and have lots of fun. ASk her for some time each week to spend just you and her doing whatever you two like to do.
2006-07-15 19:35:22 · answer #2 · answered by leebee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. I used to have a best friend who did that. The second she got a boyfriend, it was like they were the only person in the world that mattered. I wasn't very important anymore..I felt so bad. Being my best friend, she was the most important person to me, but apparently, I wasn't that great when she had a boyfriend. It's awful.
2006-07-15 21:03:08 · answer #3 · answered by MerienPlatz423 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do know how that feels. Is that happening to you? I would mostly feel like they are changing just because they are with someone and i also feel we are not important to them anymore. It's like they have a new best friend now. If you think that person is not a good friend anymore, try finding a new best friend.
2006-07-15 19:29:09 · answer #4 · answered by princess sorrow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel horrible. The thing is life happens honey. When you are single and others around you start dating, marriage kids you fall by the way side.
2006-07-15 21:53:06 · answer #5 · answered by moonspawnhotmailcom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend that you are not feeling comfortable. Your best friend would understand this. They would listen to you and won't neglect you. Just voice out. If you keep quiet, you'll probably be left out of the loop.
2006-07-15 20:05:32 · answer #6 · answered by Kurniawan A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
feeling get hurt.as people grow up they can grow apart,maby she feels like people would think she was acting single if she wasnt with him all the time.if she is a true friend she will come around.
2006-07-15 19:36:08 · answer #7 · answered by sassy1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sucks i knwo it does but it also sucks to be the third wheel, if yoru friend and her bf go hang out with you she probably sint gunna pay any attention to you and thats just worse
2006-07-15 19:29:28 · answer #8 · answered by woundshurtless 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask for some time that's just the 2 of you.
2006-07-15 19:33:42 · answer #9 · answered by K S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel the same way expect all my guy friends have gf and I need a gf.
2006-07-15 19:28:11 · answer #10 · answered by travellinghotty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋