i`ve got a man i dearly love we have been together for 1and half years and we live together but he never tells me he loves me and just acts like a pig........ any ideas ladies or gents??????????
2006-07-15 12:23:43 · 42 answers · asked by vanda c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you need to hear him tell you he loves you, tell him that. A relationship is a partnership and one of the criteria for entering into that partnership is whether or not each party will commit to fulfilling the needs of the other. Otherwise, why bother? Just pick someone off the street!
Seriously, you need to sit down and communicate your concerns to him. Each of you will have decisions to make. He will have to decide if he is capable and willing to provide the affection you need and you will have to decide what to do if he is not. You certainly cannot provide enough love for both of you and should not have to commit to him if he is not willing to commit to you.
2006-07-15 12:32:05 · answer #1 · answered by Speedo Inspector 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think your question is a bit of an overgeneralization, not all men are pigs, yet you may be dating a pig, which could lead you to feel that all men are the same as him. Classifying someone as a pig means that he must do a lot of things that disgust you (and I don't know what they are), not all guys/men are that way. You can tell him that he has to change (which is somewhat doubtful, unless he is young; people don't usually change for other people. He may grow out of it). You can dump him and move on, or you can tolerate it, those appear to be my ideas/choices I would offer to you given the limited information; good luck.
2006-07-15 12:31:53 · answer #2 · answered by deepthinker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I disagree with you. All men are not pigs. Some men are jackasses, some men are boars, some men are turkeys, some men are cameleons, some men are mad dogs, and some men are snakes. I am sure you can add to the list. In regards to your porcine prince, I would say that you could probably find a guy who is really a guy and not one of the above mentioned animals.
Good luck.
2006-07-15 13:32:06 · answer #3 · answered by tjh1957 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you blame him for being a pig...it is YOU who chose to move in with him, and you who chooses to stay with him.
Next time you have a man in your life make sure isn't a pig before you move in together.
You have more control over your life than you can ever imagine.
Leave the pig in his mud puddle and find a teddy bear.
2006-07-15 12:29:53 · answer #4 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him then asked yourself why ? Maybe you like this acting from a man ... If you don't then why do you let him ? You know , nobody can treat us more bad the we permit ...
And in other order of ideas , you don't living with someone because you can live with , you are living with someone because you can't live without ...
Is saying that who loves you never makes you cry but sometimes the person who makes you cry can brings you the peace of your soul .
2006-07-15 21:55:56 · answer #5 · answered by Viviana DanielaD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dearly love a man who won't tell you he loves you and acts like a pig around you? Do you have a problem with self confidence?
My finacee and I love each other dearly and tell each other everyday and he doesn't act like a pig. Time to find yourself a real man!! Believe in yourself sweetie!!!!!!
2006-07-15 12:39:40 · answer #6 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a greetings card and mail it to yourself. Drop it in a public mail box.
On the back of the envelope, where the flap is, just write a name. No return address. A GUY'S name.
On the inside of the card, disguise your handwriting very well.
Simply write:
Missing you terribly
I love you,
Jonas
You might also do the same thing by sending flowers to your door.
Go to a flower shop, pick out a bouquet, sign the card, Jonas and have them delivered to you at your address.
THAT should get his attention!
When he asks you who it is, just say, "I don't know." "It's a mystery."
2006-07-15 12:35:51 · answer #7 · answered by Molly 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men are like children, they test their boundaries and do not correct themselves if they do wrong. The reason he never tells you how he feels and acts like a pig is because you have proved to be tolerant of it.
Oh damn, I think I just broke the "code" ...
2006-07-15 12:31:08 · answer #8 · answered by linkus86 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somethings amiss here. Mutual respect cements a relationship, doesn't it? I would never say that to the one . I can understand these feelings due to lack of communication. You need to communicate more and get things resolved, if you can at this point. Sounds bad to me when it's at the pig stage...............
2006-07-15 12:43:01 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because men are raised to be pigs by pigs and dominated women who condone it.
2006-07-15 12:36:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋