aright so there's this girl...?

Question

right. well here goes...
there's this girl...that i like. and one night we were up till 3 chattin about life basically, and all this stuff, laughin, and like really gettin along well, and personally I always thought id never ever have a chance with her, i mean she's soooo out of my league. but that night really had me thinkin! and i thought, wow for once in my life i might have a happy romance. we even said we'd go see a movie the next day. when i tried to call her, no one answered the phone, no one replied my text messages and she never came online. so i had no contact with her, and we didnt end up seeing each other. later i realised she blocked me. i have no clue why. i dont swear curse drink or smoke, im in my mid teens, im always really respectful, and she's really confuzzling me now. i dunno what to do. can anyone tell me why she might've done something like that?

woah answers are really comin. thanks guys but its just that...i think i love her :(

-oh and we didnt meet online we go to school together! we're okay at skool, its just the hols are on now so i havent seen her in a bit

Answer 1

Sounds like she changed her mind and did not know how to graciously tell you. If anyone ever figures out women, they can write a bestseller and make a lot of money.

Answer 2

Some people are just cruel. Some people just play games. That is life. Just because you meet someone, and they stay up late talking to you, and telling you things you want to hear does not mean anything is meant to come from it.

Hell, I was involved with someone toward the end of 2005 and I thought I was going to last and I eventually started catching them in small lies and when I started to confront them about it, they just told more lies. After the first lie, I already knew what was going on, but I decided to play like I could not see what was happening, and some people do that also.

You are young, and you have time for love and all that stuff, but you need to live your life before you go out to seek that kind of stuff. Young people play a lot of games, and sometimes the person the game is being played on does not realize it or understand it. It could be that her friends were all out doing something and she had no one to talk to, so she just started talking to someone.

You need to really get to know someone before you can "like" them, and a lot of people really do not do this, and they often end up getting hurt because they see things and make assumptions.

You could always ask her directly, if you know how to see her in person, but if she blocked you, I would say that is a pretty clear sign that she is not interested in you, and rather than hurt you, she would rather just not speak to you again.

I think blocking someone without telling them and just having them wonder if you have not been on-line is much better than someone telling you to your face or on-line that they do not like you.

I would just forget her and move on with my life if I were you.

Answer 3

You should never let anyone take you for granted and if she really cared about you she wouldn't even dream of hurting you. You need to get you a good girl and get someone who is not afraid of experimenting in things if you know what I mean!!!

Answer 4

Alot of times a girl will act all nice and happy around a guy cause she doesnt want to hurt his feeling by telling him to go away! Or maybe she did find herslef liking you and that totally scared her to death so she ran. I say you are soooo much better than that. You deserve a girl who will communicate with you- stay loyal- and love you for who u are!!!! Good luck to u

Answer 5

well first of all don't even think that its cuz of something u did cuz it ain't. you've done nothing wrong. it's jst girls. they jst get paranoid if someone keeps calling them and texting them they think u r desprate and therefore won't reply. but in this case, I think she jst felt a bit lonely the other night and needed someone to talk to. but now she is peretending nothing happened and wants to get away with it. My advice would be dont call or text her anymore. I'm sure she will come back to u if she really liked u. but then you have to be careful not to be tricked by her again.

Answer 6

no, cant tell u why she got flaky on you. but, you should know that women do that, and as a teenager with a lifetime of women in your path...get use to it. now, it's time for you to start learning some defense against the darkness.

dont sweat her. dont harass her. really you should act like nothing bothers you. and get a lot of female friends. this way, you dont become too focused on one. for as you can see, there is no tellin how they will act from day to day.

Answer 7

Im gonna assume she has a boyfriend. That or she thought you were nice to talk to but didnt see beyond that and when you started trying to reach her the next day she probably freaked out. thinking that you woulda never really called.

Answer 8

The first and most obvious answer is that she doesn't feel the same way about you.
She might have just been playing with you, or something you said or did might have offended her. Try asking her friends what she's saying about you to see if you can fix it.

Answer 9

Okay.....she seems nice..and you might love her but just give her some time to figure some things out. Im sorry to say this but she might not like you..even though you like her. But if she doesn't like you for who you are then she isn't worth going out with and I think you should personally dump her. I dont think shes right for you even though you love her. You just got to move on man..lol. I hope my advice helped :)

Answer 10

Same situation im in almost. She might have feelings for you, she might think the same way that you do about her. The one problem is friends and peer pressure these days. Say she was up in the charts in popularity, and your like me, the normal guy, she may be easily persuaded by her friends.