To males only: Did you ever "mess" around with other guys when you were younger?

Question

If so, how far did you go, and are you now gay? Please no one answer with sarcastic answers as this is a serious question. In my expereience, the vast majority of guys have done at least something with other guys in their life.

Answer 1

I had a same age cousin, and we did some playful stuff, getting naked, touching a licking, but neither of us was sexually mature enough to ejaculate at that point. We were of course very secretive about all of this. He usually initiated this play. Today, he's straight and I'm gay. Go figure.

Answer 2

Straight Guys Mess Around

Answer 3

Define younger - - in this The Bush Era anyone having sex under age eighteen is considered criminal, many of us born around 1960 were at the tail end of an era when sex began in one's teens, at least by fifteen sixteen, most likely twelve or thirteen when puberty kicked in. When did I begin? Tentative touching around age nine or ten, a few stick the sausage in the hole games at age eleven, then from age twelve full on sex when lucky, or only feeble fumbling when the partner was a newbie. Now I could be called Gay but mostly I am depressed and yes I have messed around with females yet prefer men. My opinion is that a majority of men have had some sexual contact with men at some time in their life.

Answer 4

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To males only: Did you ever "mess" around with other guys when you were younger?
If so, how far did you go, and are you now gay? Please no one answer with sarcastic answers as this is a serious question. In my expereience, the vast majority of guys have done at least something with other guys in their life.

Answer 5

Sure, I did.
We had one teacher who was hopeless at keeping the class quiet. I remember wrestling around with a boy in the corner of the classroom and then I felt he'd gone stiff. I squeezed it through his trousers and said "you're all hard". He gave me a funny look, sat down, stood up again, tapped me on the shoulder, and asked the teacher if he could go to the toilet.
I twigged, and a minute after I followed him to the toilet. It was very exciting. We masturbated together and he came. I wasn't yet able to come at that age.
I went to the toilets with several boys. We never ****** but I did do a mean fellatio.
Once a boy asked me to f$ck him, but I didn't know enough about it to get it in. Also I was put off because I got a bit of sh$t on my dick.
That pleasure came later. I still do a nifty bl$w j$b though .... I can deep throat with the best of them.

Augusta

Answer 6

Yes, I dont know if I was gay back then but Im gay now and I dont believe that it made me gay. Being just a toddler I remember getting in trouble because a friend and I were playing with eachothers pee pees. Around 6 me and the same kid started masturbating together although we couldnt get off and I look at it as more exploring the male body if anything. I also had another friend that I did those things with, I think we even did oral. I masturbated with my cousins and another friend before. Me and the first guy fooled around off and on up until we were 14. There was also another guy that I had masturbated with when I was 13, he showed me what cumming was and we also did oral. Where all of this came from I have no idea. Dont even know who instigated it.The first guy that I mentioned, it would come up as we were going to sleep and top the night off with 'truth or dare' which pretty much meant 'tell me what you want and ill tell you what i want.' We did oral but never cummed in the mouth. We also would hump eachother with our penis in between the persons thighs (his idea) but not anal. We eventually quit being friends and i think he spread rumors about me but i have no clue for sure. We were both interested in girls but would just think of it as playing. Everything stopped at 14 and around 15 i began to question my sexuality. I forced myself to be straight until I was 21. As far as i know, Im the only person out of them all that is gay. I also think that straight guys have had similar experiences because it would always come up at nightime with someone saying something along the lines of 'do you ever play with your penis?'
crazy crazy stuff
also my boyfriend has no clue. He thinks the first time I have messed around with a guy was when I was 21. But i really dont look at kids playing and exploring themselves as messing around. He also says he never did anything when he was younger. I think that people are afraid to admit it because of fear they will be pointed at and told that they have issues from when they are younger.

Answer 7

Hey,

I was about 14 when i "messed around" with my then mate (on more than one ocassion). We went all the way (which was my first time) and I learned then that I love to give head lol. I am in fact gay now, and he and i are no longer friends.... long story.

Answer 8

No. I was perhaps too inhibited when I was a child. Then I went to war with a lot of other men as an adult and I learned that the opportunity existed, but never wanted to dominate another male. Girls are just too much fun.

Answer 9

Yes. It was only petting (playing "doctor") and I am now gay. I think this is unrelated, though, because he's straight, as are most guys who mess around when they are kids.

Answer 10

When I was younger a lot of kids parents were too poor to buy water guns, so one day some kid peed all over me and thought it was funny, so than I did it back and then everyone started. We were 3,4 year old's though so you cant really consider that homo, but it sounds a little gay now when I think about it.