whats going on with me and my co-worker??

Question

lately ive been hangin out with my co-worker that i like and he's told me just a couple days ago that he likes me a lil. but everytime where hangin out were either dunk, high or both. but we always end up doing **** like making out. we talk to each other at work so its not akward but idk if i should tlak to him bout gettng together because he has told me he would like to hook up but i would like to go out with him. is this a fling or should i considered going out with him?

lately ive been hangin out with my co-worker that i like and he's told me just a couple days ago that he likes me a lil. but everytime where hangin out were either dunk, high or both. but we always end up doing **** like making out. we talk to each other at work so its not akward but idk if i should tlak to him bout gettng together because he has told me he would like to hook up but i would like to go out with him. is this a fling or should i considered going out with him? i also like him when were sober and hangin out so idk wat to do

Answer 1

I don't know. If he said he wants to hook up, it sounds like he just wants to get in your pants. I speak from experience though when I say that drugs and alcohol make you see people differently and feel differently about them than you normally would. I would try hanging out with him when both you guys are straight, or at least when you are straight. If you still feel attracted, then I'd go for it. If you don't like him in a straight state of mind, then he's no good for you.

Answer 2

Trust me don't get involved!!!!!!!!, I had a relationship start that way. he wanted to hook up i wanted to date. long story short it was 3 years of heart ache and he never changed. Now i don't mix work and play and I'm very happy in life. i know it's hard to meet people when life is busy, so go out with Friends and don't hesitate to let your girlfriends know that your willing to meet any guys they might work with, in a social event or just popping by their job to see if there is a spark. Good luck, I know it's hard, sincerely hoping you don't end up in my old situation.