we have been trying for almost two years...i have gone to my OBGYN and he says that everything is fine nothing is wrong everything looks normal...i recently took fertility pills and all though i haven't gotten my period for july im not getting too excited...cause just like every other time i end up not being pregnant..anyways has anyone gone through this before....we have two other kids it took me a year to get pregnant with my son..and another year with my daughter we are almost going on two years now...its very hard to deal with right now since a lot of people are pregnant in my family at the time...anyways if you know of anything i could do to better my chances of getting pregnant i would love to hear about them....thanks all..
2006-07-15 10:27:57 · 14 answers · asked by francescavictoria18 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
If everything is fine, then you shouldn't be taking fertility pills. They have *serious* side effects. In fact, Clomid (the most common fertility drug prescribed) can actually *cause* infertility!!
Before you do anything else, please read _Taking Charge of Your Fertility_ by Toni Weschler. The information in the book may be enough to help you get pregnant, but, even if not, it may give you information that will help a doctor treat you. And if you *do* need medical help, please see a *fertility* specialist--not an OB/GYN!!
2006-07-16 00:48:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had the same problem. I found WONDERFUL answers at www.tryingtoconceive.com. I stopped drinking Pepsi (Caffiene reduces your chance of conceiving by 50%!!!) Also try drinking green tea (decaffinated) or take the capsule form. Green tea is an antioxident, and it DOUBLES your chance of conceiving (something about increasing the quality of your egg). Also look into Vitex (also called chasteberry) it is kind of a natural herbal form of clomid. I got pregnant my first cycle taking it. I know it is hard to relax, but do try. your diet has aot to do with things. Eat healthy, elminate coffee and caffiene and I bet in no time you will be pregnant!! It worked for me and I have a beautiful 4 year old to prove it. Best of luck. YOU WILL GET PREGNANT, trust me.
2006-07-15 20:08:20 · answer #2 · answered by Pepsi_Frog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its just a way of saying its not the time right now...The time that you want a baby the most is the time that you wont get pregnant. So try not to think to much about it right now...I found a great website that helps www.justmommies.com...they have such a great forum for mommies just like you!! check it out
2006-07-15 17:31:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't believe that orgasm thing, I studied this in school, and they are totally wrong. You having and orgasm has nothing to do with getting pregnant. He needs to have one, and after he does, keep a pillow under your hips for a while, and don't get up. Just stop trying to hard, my mom couldnt get pregnant for 5 years, when she stopped trying, she got pregnant with me.
2006-07-15 17:31:46 · answer #4 · answered by Tracy L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, not exactly before your period, but after the period is more likely to get pregnant - the endometer is more larger these days and you have more chances to get pregnant .
2006-07-15 17:36:39 · answer #5 · answered by Yahoo Advice Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are putting to much pressure on yourself, relax enjoy what you have (2 beautiful children) and if it is meant to happen it will. Stress is a bad thing when you are trying to get pregnant.
2006-07-15 17:36:25 · answer #6 · answered by Joy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should relax and quit stressing about it. The more you stress, the less likely you are going to get pregnant soon.
2006-07-15 17:39:22 · answer #7 · answered by shygirl_jill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are much more likely to get pregnant if you have sex a couple of days before your period. Also, if YOU have an or gasm as well, you are much more likely to get pregnant
2006-07-15 17:29:57 · answer #8 · answered by bonkti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try NOT to get pregnant.go about your normal sexual activities..let your husband *** in you and all..just dont stress yourself out thinking am i going to get pregnant..just do your normal daily activites
when your not trying it usually happens.
thats my perspective
2006-07-15 17:44:39 · answer #9 · answered by mommy2savannah51405 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have sex every day STOP, do it every other day, then put your legs ubove your head, trust me this works every time!!
2006-07-15 17:32:26 · answer #10 · answered by jmklk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋