My friends say that I need to grow up. They think it's so weird that I never think about boys and still have never had any contact with any boys (except for the one or two guy friends that I have). What do you guys think? Am I too "immature" for my age
2006-07-15 10:27:28 · 19 answers · asked by kewlchic189 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am thoroughly impressed that there are girls out there that are moralistic! I am sure that you would be surprised @ how many are as well but due to peer pressure do not admit or deny thier experiences . Unfortunately it (sex) is just a thing to most kids nowadays. They who say you are immature are not but jealous that you have something that they do not besides thier good name,they do not have character. They are insecure,& immature. It takes a grown person to keep to themselves and not feel they have to express themselves sexually to make a name for themselves.Until you are old enough to decide what it is you want ,stick to your beliefs and do not be swayed by those around you and I promise that you will have all that you choose to do and have in life.Not only is it not "weird" it is outstanding and shining with character!! Keep going the way your path is taking and you and only let those deserving ,follow and be around you!Not in a stuck -up way but in an intelligent humanbeing way! Good luck and thank-you for the inspiration that reaffirms my belief in good natured people in the world!
2006-07-15 10:57:16 · answer #1 · answered by kim.york 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are barely a woman. Consider your moral standards and the parents that raised you. There is plenty of time to find yourself in the future, now is the time to explore the quality of life you can enjoy. The options you have can be hindered by too much pressure on something like questioning your maturity. The friends you have need to concentrate on building their lives too. Enjoy school and don't settle for just anyone, guys who respect girls are also too busy with their lives. I have two good looking college graduate nephews that hardly date. But soon they will meet a great girl like you. You take care of yourself.
2006-07-15 17:36:14 · answer #2 · answered by AggieMom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, definitely not weird or immature. The ironic thing is that your friends see maturity as having sex or thinking about sex in their teens, which is not the smartest or safest thing to do. Follow your heart, but check with your mind as well, before making a decision - this is a sign of maturity and it looks like you ve got it down
2006-07-15 17:32:33 · answer #3 · answered by inDmood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't immature just because you don't want a boyfriend or aren't having sex. Every person is different and if those aren't your priorities right now then don't worry about it. Concentrate on school and keep in mind you have plenty of time to date and have a boyfriend.
2006-07-15 17:31:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hehe immature immature immature. Come one..get rid of the sex crap girl..get a good education. Be a success in life. No one will ask you about the ***** you blowed, but the degree you have.Get one..
2006-07-15 17:31:13 · answer #5 · answered by Eric 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should be the way you are. do not change because the way that others think you should be. when you let guys be on your mind 24/7 you are taking away from other important things you should be thinking about... things like education, personal goals, having fun being young. there is absolutely nothing wrong with you.
2006-07-15 17:34:11 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's personal preferance, just because most 17 year old girls aren't weirded out to talk about sex doesn't mean that it's weird if someone doesn't want to
2006-07-15 19:57:30 · answer #7 · answered by violask81976 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a female. I am single. I do not like to sit around chatting about sex. By the way, I am 40.
2006-07-15 17:31:07 · answer #8 · answered by NC_Pianist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you're friends need to respect the fact that you aren't sexually mature yet. Which isn't wrong or anything, you'll thank yourself for it in the future. And it will come to you, sooner or later. And you'll know when your ready for it. Don't rush it.
2006-07-15 17:29:55 · answer #9 · answered by n0love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I DONT THINK THATS WEIRD, THE PROBLEM IS THAT YOUR NOT READY FOR THAT SUBJECT. YOU PROBABLY FEEL UNCOFORTABLE THINKING ABOUT SEX OR ANYTHIG ELSE THAT HAS TO DO WITH IT, YOU ARE JUST NOT INSTARTING IN HAVING SEX WITH GUYS OR DOING ANY SEXUAL THING, JUST MAKE A MOVE WHEN YOU READY NOT WHEN YOUR FRIENDS TELL YOU TOO.
2006-07-15 17:39:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋