this guy who i like keeps on asking me out, but in a joking way, and i say no because i don't want him to know. does he actually like me, he says he cares for me and likes me, but he is joking when he asks. HELP!
2006-07-15 09:23:29 · 5 answers · asked by danielle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
WHY ALL THE DRAMA??? For crying out loud. Next time he asks, say this: "Sure...where you taking me?" Say it back just as jokingly as he asks...then ask us this question again tomorrow.
2006-07-15 09:35:03 · answer #1 · answered by mslorikoch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-07-18 02:58:06 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could just be joking...some guys just joke all the time.
He could be serious...he wants to ask you out for real, but just does not have the courage,
2006-07-15 16:32:31 · answer #3 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's messing with you. Go find a guy who makes you happy to hang out with and likes hanging out with you, without stupid little ego games!
2006-07-15 16:34:36 · answer #4 · answered by Skeff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u like him........SAY YES!! duh! he may be too nervous to ask seriously, so play along with it. hope i helped.
2006-07-15 16:34:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋