The relationship with my fiancee is seriously on edge here. I feel as if we aren't even dating anymore. There isn't anything I wouldn't do for him. Ever since I got hurt on the job things have been so stressful for us both. He's had to get a second job working in the next state over and I don't see him from 10 am to 11pm or 12 am. I know that since our sex life died nothing has been the same. It is just too hot here to do anything. Also, where we have absolutely no air in our apartment, the heat is making things worse. I love this man so much and since he got here in February I just feel that we were completely blind upon entering this commitment. I DO want to marry him and I DO want to be his wife forever....but after today, I just don't think that it is going to happen. What should I do??? I am trying to save what I can of this relationship. Talking to him about things only seems to make it worse......
2006-07-15 09:12:54 · 3 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Relationships without sex don't work out.
2006-07-15 09:28:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Im agree with the other answer, the best thing is the comunication, but is important how you ask the thing, dont cry, dont scream, dont be angry, just be in calm and say how much you love him and what you want... and how do you feel ...NOW!!! today ..!! in this moment!!! because yestarday you have a good life but today you are sad, insecure and that is not a good future for you, and if all that thing happen maybe is a prub for see if your relationship is strong , so i see you want figth for this relation but the question is ..he want too???? so the time give you the answer but sometimes you want the answer now so talk with your man and tell him you need answer, because you feel alone !
please think very well your decision because is your future ...good luck !!!
2006-07-15 16:40:49 · answer #2 · answered by pbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is everything....if you can't talk to him, then you just as soon hang it up. You two need to sit down and have a heart to heart. If you can't get along now, then it really doesn't do any good to get married. You don't get married to get divorced.....remember that. He's under a lot of stress, I'm sure. So try to talk to him, stay calm, be patient. I believe you'll be glad you did. Best of luck to you...........
2006-07-15 16:21:41 · answer #3 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋