ok met this amazing guy last year. after an expensive long distance relationship decided to move to the same country, leaving my family and friends in sunny england. am not settling in as well as hoped and cant stop thinking i dont feel the same for him any more. still love him but not so much passion. should i move back/on...or see how it goes? any advice?
2006-07-15 09:11:22 · 8 answers · asked by meowser 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i did the same thing i met him in the canaries and after 5 yrs of traveling from liverpool to ireland i decided to move over and give it ago i felt the same as you did and was very home sick but it soon went away (you dont say how far you have moved to ) you just need some time to decide weather you have done the wright thing it will work out one way or the other have a chat with your man and explain things to him he should understand ,if you were to go home now you could end up kicking yourself , im now married to the guy i met ,we have a 2yr old son and are still like we were when we met each other and that was 11 yrs ago im only 28 and it was the best thing i ever did i go home as often as i can and my friend and family come over to me . just follow your heart only you will no if its wright or wrong good luck on what you decide .
2006-07-15 09:26:57 · answer #1 · answered by fafandloo 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
give it a little time.. it takes some to get used to being in a new place.. if you're sure you love him that is.. but if you have doubts then you need to take a break and think about it.. would you rather go home and be happy with your family and friends? be sure that guy feels the same about you before you decide.. because sometimes the spark is having it long distance but it's not all that special when it's face to face.. best of luck
2006-07-15 09:15:09 · answer #2 · answered by Ninja CK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you acted too fast last time, don't make the same mistake again. try and see if things work out. you say you still love him, so stay with him for the time being. later on, if you still feel that you guys are not meant to be, then move back.
2006-07-15 09:20:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats quite a problem,
so the way i see it if you still love him then stay, its not all about passion its about the feeling, if you love him then you love him, its that simple (or at least it is to me, i am thinking of moving to america to my gf so i have been thinking about this sort of thing)
but thats my thoughts, and i could very well be wrong
2006-07-15 11:37:19 · answer #4 · answered by dynasty_general 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships seldom work out, but some have. You have to think very seriously the pros and cons of your relationship and of moving back. If you're truly not happy, then go back home. I wish you the best of luck........
2006-07-15 09:23:50 · answer #5 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it a little more time, and try to understand if you really want to stay with this guy. but if you miss your home so much come back and visit your friends and parents on a regular base!
2006-07-15 09:19:41 · answer #6 · answered by Legolas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay it take time when you go to new country. i move from England 2 years ago to be with my partner
2006-07-15 09:19:27 · answer #7 · answered by andy p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move back home and forget this bozo
2006-07-15 09:14:34 · answer #8 · answered by Mark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋