Hey, Iam really happy with my boyfriend, we live together since a half year now and he tells me all the time how sexy and gorges Iam, we never fight and everything is wonderful, but I just read some conversations of his messenger mails, with other girls! How sexy they r, he wants to see naked pictures, he calls them baby, schatzi, hunny, would love to see them and takes nrs.! I called him and told him that Iam hurt and he says, its just talkin! I dont know what to believe! What would u do?
2006-07-15 09:03:04 · 10 answers · asked by hotangel812000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if he says he loves you and he's doing this I would ask him to not do it. if he loves you he will stop how would he feel if you were diong the same thing.
2006-07-15 09:09:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I think he is USING you. Period.
Read ahead if you want to know why.
1> He never realised that you would find his little secret out. But he obviously had it all figured out that you will eventually smell a rat. Hence the answers to your questions.
2> If he is talking dirty to women online, then I think it is not too improbable that he is doing that offline too. Think about it. He sounds like a smooth talker.
3> Take a Break, sounds trite but works miracles. If he loves you as much as he says he does, then he would woo you back.
4> Take some measures to cushion yourself from heartache like this in the future.
All the best
2006-07-15 16:41:46 · answer #2 · answered by stillfreezing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry but i would start of breaking up with him.. If he doesnt stop this and really apologise to you then for me it would be over.. In my relationship I want to be the ventre and not other girls .. doesnt matter if he means what he says or not but it's just nasty..If u give him another chance tell him that u want things different and if u catch him doing it again then just find someone who respects you girl because this is disrespectful!ask him why he does it and tell him that you cant put up with him like this..
2006-07-15 16:10:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta break up with him or tell him you're really considering breaking up with him..or do anything to make him realize that what he does with the other girls is stupid if he already has a girlfriend that he loves and that he's attracted to. He has to be scared to lose you and he has to learn his lesson.
2006-07-15 16:40:03 · answer #4 · answered by Isabelia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a jerk! I think if he was just watching porn on the internet, it would be ok, but here he is talking with girls and getting involved with them. That is not right. Tell him to knock it off or dump him.
2006-07-15 16:10:51 · answer #5 · answered by clorox.bleech 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up w/ him if you have told him that it hurts you and he still does it then he really is an a** hole if he talks to them like that on line what does he do in person?
2006-07-15 16:10:06 · answer #6 · answered by lynsey the librarian 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't mind the dirty talk, you should tell him to occassionally act that way towards you. And tell him you'll leave him if he continues to do that with other girls.
2006-07-15 16:17:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl just break up with him !that is what i did with my boyfriend he did the samething!!!
2006-07-15 16:39:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him b4 you get hurt any more!!!
2006-07-15 16:10:16 · answer #9 · answered by PiERCEy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch him
2006-07-15 16:13:39 · answer #10 · answered by rosie w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋