I like to know if I can bring bk a lost love.......I have lighted a candle (red) every night. Also made a herbal sachet aswell, was wondering if there is any other things I need to do?
2006-07-15 09:01:57 · 18 answers · asked by Queenbee 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Mythology & Folklore
if you're trying to bring back a specific person, it's not something you should be doing. essentially that affects the person's free will and is against the wiccan rede. 'an it harm none, do what ye will'. doing a spell on someone without their permission is basically harming them. not to mention a love spell that works is a bad idea. the ethically correct way according to their laws would be a spell to bring about new love and happiness for yourself. it's not directed at someone in specific and will not have negative consquences.
below is a link on making an herbal sachet. different ingredients will go in it depending on what your intention is.
2006-07-15 09:09:17 · answer #1 · answered by Kismet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some Wiccans feel love spells are off limits and control the "free will" of others. And, some don't feel this way and have no problem practicing love magick on others.
Looks like you have the candle magick going. Just make sure you are visualizing your goal. If you are just lighting the candle and walking away, it won't do much. Also, charging (rubbing oil) your candle with a love oil like Rose or Jasmine is good too. You could also place a Rose Quartz at the base of the candle with rose petals and put them all into the sachet pouch with the candle remnants once it burns down.
Hope this helps!
2006-07-15 16:15:07 · answer #2 · answered by nicolekadman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are that the spirit is there with you. After someone passes the spirit usually stays close to the boy for a while. If you stand at the foot of the casket you can feel an overwhelming presence there. You don't have to be Wiccan to be visited by a loved one who has passed. Try to talk to this person as if they were there with you. Think of nothing but that person and the times that you spent with them. Often that is all that it takes. I am sorry for your lost and hope that you find what you are looking for. I wish you luck with your adventure. Blessed be!
2006-07-15 16:39:05 · answer #3 · answered by SouthernBelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you cannot bring back a lost love. What has passed from this incarnation to the next cannot return. I would suggest you light a candle for healing for yourself so that the pain of the loss can pass and you can move on with your life.
2006-07-17 08:09:51 · answer #4 · answered by Stephen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have heard you can make a "sigil" (now don't laugh) out of an old near empty bottle of wine. You want to (don't mean to insult here) masturbate and put some of your, well you know in the bottle along with something of his, preferably his hair or something he might have worn. Very little will do, it should all mix with the wine to re-ferment. Remember this is a sigil which is a sign, word, or device held to have occult power in astrology or magic. Place your red candle on top to seal it, light it in the center of your pentacle/pentagram (if you have one) everyday in the morning (if possible) for 9 says.
2006-07-15 16:20:26 · answer #5 · answered by igɳo★ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to read the Wiccan Rede, and find out on the web or books ( careful, as some are not what you think ). Love spells BACKFIRE. Ever hear " careful for what you wish for " ? Also think outside the box.
Ethics prevent any Wiccan to manipulate another. There are consequences, and they could be very costly to you.
2006-07-16 08:10:14 · answer #6 · answered by Bonie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Merry Meet Stephanie,
Yes, you could bring him back ././//but unless he really wants to be there, eventually you won't like what you get.
Why don't you bring in someone who really wants you? You do a spell for qualities in the men that you list and he will appear...it worked great for me!
The only catch is that you have to possess those same qualities or similar ones, yourself in order to live happily ever after.
As for Wicca...come on we are not only about spells like this. Speak to the Goddess and then wait and listen for the answer.
Blessed Be!
2006-07-15 16:13:33 · answer #7 · answered by Greanwitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Bonie, be careful what you wish for.Asking for love in it of itself isn't wrong, as long as you are doing so with a clear mind.If you have even the smallest thought of some one particular you may be harming that person.Remember: HARM NONE DO WHAT YE WILL.Careful you could also be harming yourself!
2006-07-20 15:48:37 · answer #8 · answered by Jillsifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, footwork, the rituals must be internalized as well as to set things in motion, to bring ones' awareness up pertaining to a specific situation, its a working relationship. I hoping you don't mean lost as in dead then forget about it and learn to accept it.
2006-07-15 16:15:41 · answer #9 · answered by pilgram92003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please put your thoughts into healing and moving on. Open your heart to new possibilities. If he's really gone, accept that for your own peace of mind.
2006-07-15 21:06:47 · answer #10 · answered by Kali K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋