im thinking of breaking up with my boyfriend that ive been going out with for 2 1/2 months but im one of those type of people who hate to break up with ppl and dont like to hurt other ppl. i still want to be friends with him and hang out with him but i have feelings for other ppl and he's been talking to his ex girlfriend lately. how should i break up with him?
2006-07-15 08:22:44 · 6 answers · asked by simfreak07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It seems that his feelings may be straying as well as yours. Find a nice place that you can sit down and talk with him about your feelings. Tell him that you're questioning the strength of the relationship and that you feel he might be questioning it too. The best way to not hurt someone in situations like this (and keep a friendship there) is to be honest. It might be akward at first, but it'll work out.
2006-07-15 08:30:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say you go for broke and tell him that lately things have changed between you two and that you would prefer if you were just friends. Remind him that his being your friend is very important and for that reason you dont want to lose him as just that. Dont mention wanting to see other guys- most guys take HIGH offense to that like they did something wrong. And since you said he has been talking more to his ex- he may feel the same way you do right now!
2006-07-15 15:48:03 · answer #2 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him exactly what you just wrote.next time if u hate breaking up with ppl then dont get into a relationship.
2006-07-15 15:31:46 · answer #3 · answered by brownspecial 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just sit him down and keep it real with him. It might hurt a little at first but it beats the pain of being some where your not wanted.He will get over the pain
2006-07-15 15:28:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no easy way to break up with somebody, and no matter what it will hurt.. so just say.. i think your cheating on me with your ex.. its over
2006-07-15 15:26:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be stright up, foward,and honest.. tell him tha reasons u want to break up with him and take it from there
2006-07-15 15:26:47 · answer #6 · answered by brandy y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋