She's recently divorced with 2 kids. Always go clubbing after work.
2006-07-15 08:16:31 · 9 answers · asked by Daniel 2 in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
Find another job if she is that bad. There is no amount of money worth being abused by a drunk at any time.
2006-07-15 08:22:05 · answer #1 · answered by thebushman 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wait until she has a better day very soon, update your resume, go to her for a credit letter of reference, this letter will verify that you have a job and she is actually doing it admitting she pays you and you have the right to work in the USA. It can be used to get a better job, she has to state how much you make. Also she is suppose to abide by the EOE which will fine employers that don't do what they are suppose to and your local Labor Board would be very interested in how they conduct business. Human rights have been part of this country for over 230 + years. Finally go to legal aid if you don't make very much and you are not with limited citizenship, they will advise you as to what to do about filing a law suit for harrassment emotional destress etc. Good luck each state is different. They will have to give you unemployment if they fire you.
2006-07-15 15:23:33 · answer #2 · answered by kangaroo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stare at her when she starts. Don't fidget or cross your arms or look away. Give her your full attention. When she is finished calmly in a regular speaking voice say, "This is what I understood you to say...", and then tell her what you think she was talking about. When you are finished, ask her if that's correct? She will be so surprised that you didn't react to her anger that it will force her to think about how she is communicating. It is very important that you listen only to what she is trying to tell you and not react to her anger. It may take more than one time, but it will work. Good luck!
2006-07-15 15:38:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is upset and frustrated about her divorced. So she just shout and bang tables to vent her anger. I think after sometime she will be back to her normal self. Otherwise you better look for other jobs.
2006-07-16 09:52:38 · answer #4 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to her and try to talk to her with respect and understanding. If she doesn't improve go to her supervisor. But you should go through the proper channels and talk to her first, if she is going through a divorce she is probably under a lot of stress and doesn't realize she is taking it out on the people around her.
2006-07-15 15:29:17 · answer #5 · answered by keri gee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep a low profile especially if you are not conniving. Those types of people tend to flock together so watch your back with some co-workers. Also, everytime you want to quit, let it motivate you to get yourself ready for what you would really rather do if that is not your first choice of career.
2006-07-15 15:22:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not going to change her. I, personally, would start looking for a different job. It's impossible to work for someone who doesn't respect you. Good Luck.
2006-07-15 15:22:27 · answer #7 · answered by mightymite1957 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either ignore her or better still quietly look for another job.
2006-07-15 15:19:26 · answer #8 · answered by msianmania 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show him yr manhood.(yr machoism)
2006-07-16 03:48:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋