how do i become more confident?
2006-07-15 08:15:12 · 6 answers · asked by ♥ms.peREz?♥ 4 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Have you thought about why you feel this way, is someone telling you things to make you feel this way? No one is going to be able to reach you if you don't let them. I belive everyone is special in there own way and no one should feel less then great about them selves. Seek help with a conserler , community leader, religiose leader if you practice a faith, friends that are good not the jack asses.
2006-07-15 08:20:17 · answer #1 · answered by chillyndrina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Help others. Whether it'd be doing a favor for a friend, relative, or some charity work. If you don't already, exercise. You should move and keep yourself busy. Take a sheet of paper, write down all the things that you don't like about yourself. After you're done, read it all 3 times, then rip the paper apart into little tiny bits of pieces, throw 'em away, and vow to accept/fix/get rid of the things on that list.
2006-07-15 15:20:30 · answer #2 · answered by Sharon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While being an insecure person myself, this is what I have to do everyday:
Remind myself that God made me just the way I am. He didn't want me to be like anyone else.
I have to tell myself that since God made me unique and wonderful, that I do not need to compare myself to anyone.
I quess the thing that really helps build my confidence is knowing that no matter how bad I screw up, no matter where I am in life, that God loves me just the way I am. He promised to never leave me or forsake me, and his love, mercy and grace are made fresh everyday.
hope this helps!
2006-07-15 15:22:40 · answer #3 · answered by just forgiven 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just understand that there are always those who think they are superior, put others down and make others feel inferior. The truth is, people like this are, themselves super insecure. That's how they can feel better about themselves. There are two things I always try to remember. Christ, being our example, told us and showed us that we should always be below all things and the other is, God don't make no junk!
2006-07-15 15:30:25 · answer #4 · answered by oldman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe in yourself, Know that God made you to be you. Just knowing that your insecure, is the first step to recovery. I bet your very good at many things and you probably take that for granted. DON'T, Those are your special gifts and you should feel proud about that. I am proud of you because your being honest about you.
A very rare and special thing ( honesty ). Keep it up !!!!!
2006-07-15 17:19:59 · answer #5 · answered by kerryjonjon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of something you do well. consider how many other people would like to be able to do it as well as you.
We are all a bit insecure; that is normal.
2006-07-15 15:21:13 · answer #6 · answered by Grey Bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋