2006-07-15 08:02:59 · 19 answers · asked by beez_z 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
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2006-07-15 08:03:55 · answer #1 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I know what you are trying to say. You are a "normal human being" -- and not EXTREMELY HOT or sometihng.....am I right? Ok, here it is......younger females are sort of like the males as they look at the outside beauty first. Except that is a BIG mistake because it is the INNER BEAUTY (male or female) -- what is in the heart - that truly counts. I have met people who were extremely good looking and THEN got to "know" them.........and they became "very ugly" people to me. I worked with a woman at one time who weighed probably 350 lbs. We took breaks at the same time, talked. I didn't look at her the same way. She was friendly, upbeat, caring......awesome person. Now, I am a female and I am not talking about a relationship of course as I'm not gay (married 25 yrs) but I'm trying to make my point. You may look at someone who may not "stand out" --- look for the ones who don't stand out. Listen to them -- the "real" them. I am rambling here (sorry). The thing is....when the women start maturing and realizing the truth about others - that is when you will be noticed and find the love of your life. Unfortunately, we all have to start out "immature." Hang in there!!! Don't change either because you don't want to find someone you may spend your life with under "fake circumstances."
2006-07-15 15:11:56 · answer #2 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women do like nice guys thats what we want to spend our life with when u find one send him to my house.Oh and girls read the question out load to your self hes not talking about looks he talking about being a good person. Good luck.
2006-07-15 15:08:49 · answer #3 · answered by sabrina_star_2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women like confidence. In the end, it's not about "good guys" and "bad boys." It's about being comfortable with oneself. The insecure guy sometimes gets the girl, but he rarely can make it last. And I should know. I am one.
2006-07-15 20:03:01 · answer #4 · answered by Keither 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, it's because the nice guys never speak up. I love good guys, and I'm sorry you feel this way. Maybe you should be more forward, it might give you a better chance.
2006-07-15 15:05:34 · answer #5 · answered by Lizzie D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that you're having such a rough time. For some reason, women seem to be attracted to men that are unattainable. I wouldn't recommend that you stop being nice, but you shouldn't wear your heart on your sleeve either. Make them want you!
2006-07-15 15:09:35 · answer #6 · answered by tina m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are attracted to the confident, humorous teasers, and rebels....it's a natural gut attraction with no logical sense.
The nice guys are the wussies who don't attract no-one, unless they're after your money or there is no other options...
2006-07-15 21:33:33 · answer #7 · answered by Its not me Its u 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all women like good guys. but good guys tend to be too shy too approach girls unlike guys who are a bit bad looking are confident enough to approach girls they like so they usually end up having the girl. Good guys wait for the proper timing.
2006-07-15 15:08:26 · answer #8 · answered by Summer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys are for marrying,bad guy are for experimenting with.
It also impresses the friends and make the parents crazy,lol.
2006-07-15 15:09:43 · answer #9 · answered by racquel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling. Women totally ignore you and go to the 'punk/bad guy' like magnets. It makes me sad inside.
I think they just like guys that try to test their boundries or something. I don't know for sure.
2006-07-15 15:06:51 · answer #10 · answered by cerubus_666 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a difference between a good guy and one who is having a pity party. Suck it up and be a man! Who wants someone who cries when it doesn't go their way.
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2006-07-15 15:05:37 · answer #11 · answered by amorgan4osu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋