I've been a Christian for about 2 years now and I'm still struggling with some things and I sometimes wonder if my behavior in bed with my husband is acceptable by God. I love my husband and we're still very "hot" for eachother, but I don't want to do anything that isn't what God intended for a married couple to do.
2006-07-15 06:25:55 · 30 answers · asked by gorf79 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You can do whatever you want as long as it's not illeagal, come on, your married. Enjoy it. And ask yourself, WWJD? What Would Jim Do?
2006-07-15 06:27:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, along with the world, God created Adam and Eve. Wanting them to be companions and be happy together. God also created sex. Something to be very beautiful What you do in your bedroom, God already sees. He is there always. I think your just fine. If in your bedroom what you do makes you happy and satisfied, I think God smiles on it. God created it to be beautiful, and when you put restrictions as to what way is right or wrong, that's putting limitations on what you can learn about each other as a couple. Trying new and invigorating things awaken the spirit. Both yours and your husbands as well as The one that is now joined in marriage. Two become One. I also believe that God is extremely understanding. Understanding of what We have been through in the past and the needs that we have, and is willing to work with us. He isn't up in heaven ready to strike down at any time. He loves His children. and wants them to grow, in all things.
2006-07-15 06:32:17 · answer #2 · answered by Enigma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read the Song of Solomans ( book in the Bible )and get Tommy Nelsons stuff. He does and indepth study on what the book is all about. This book of the bible is all about love, sex and romance. Many in the Christian community turned it into an allegory between God and his people because it was so explicit. Young Jewish boys were not allowed to read it because they knew what the imagery meant. I personally would say the passion is exactly what God wants. Some Christians turn Christianity into something lame and not too fun but I disagree.
2006-07-15 06:31:47 · answer #3 · answered by lend322 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I understand your concern, so much of what was considered wrong in the past is now okay by today's standards.You could ask 100 people & you would get 100 different answers- you could ask God & you would get one answer that would be the same since the beginning of time.If you don't get an answer the first time keep asking & listen to your conscious. I have my own opinions but i'm afraid they have been skewd by the popular thinking of today--wishing you the best...
2006-07-15 06:38:44 · answer #4 · answered by Danica Fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question to be asking. I'm glad you don't want to do something wrong. I would say that as long as you are married, then you are ok. Don't just count my opinion on this but God created sex for married couples to enjoy together and that's what you and your husband are doing.
2006-07-15 06:28:35 · answer #5 · answered by Rose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a married Christian, you can 'behave' any way you wish in the bedroom with your spouse, as long as it is loving, kind, and gentle, and agreeable to both partners.
That includes reciprocal oral sex, any kind of positions that you desire to try, and using 'props' like vibrators-- if that's the kind of thing you're hung up about.
If you're still "hot" in that relationship after 2 years, you're doing something right.
If your 'preacher' is telling you that you 'shouldn't be doing that', your church has a problem, not you.
2006-07-15 06:32:15 · answer #6 · answered by fiddlesticks9 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For two people in love, any behavior between that's accepted by both of them is certainly acceptable to God. God wants us to be happy. Pleasing each other physically, especially if it's someone you've promised your life, heart and soul to, pleases God much.
2006-07-15 06:28:41 · answer #7 · answered by Mary Beth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you can do any thing you want to in the bedroom with your husband. gods word says sex is supposed to be a beautiful thing between two christian married people. that means any kind of sex if you want to. i think no matter what you do in the bedroom with your husband god will bless you for waiting for having sex until after marriage.
2006-07-15 06:35:01 · answer #8 · answered by grapebubblegirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what's jointly agreed by both of you,out of love and less on the lust. Never let any act lead you outside seeking others. If you do something that you are not comfortable with then do not, the human imagination along with lust is powerful and often burns in us and hard to deter from, be alone, be loving, be natural, and bless you husband as he should bless you.
2006-07-15 06:32:43 · answer #9 · answered by AJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As for me, Im a christian too but Im not married yet but I think I know somethings....you guys should do w/e you want just keep it clean, love eachother,nevr go off with another person,and dont forget about God when you're having fun ........
O yea....This mite sound stupid but...Im only 11
2006-07-15 06:29:43 · answer #10 · answered by Kezia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing you have to really understand, as a "baby" Christian, is that you don't live your lives according to other peoples convictions. What may be wrong for them, may not be wrong for you. Too many times we are judged by others, because our actions don't conform to their convictions. If God doesn't want you doing something, trust me, He'll let you know, one way or another. I say keep the spark in your bedroom life. Go for it. You'll know sooner or later what's wrong or not. You'll be ok.................Best of luck to you...........
2006-07-15 10:09:10 · answer #11 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋